http://www.funadvice.com/my/advice/billietbee en-us haha no i dont think so billietbee Wed, 17 Oct 2007 18:17:36 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/why_do_so_many_positions_hurt 114446 thnx everyone.. yea the ovaries thing makes the most sense because thats where it hurts the most. i was just under the impression that they couldn't be hit. :s billietbee Wed, 17 Oct 2007 13:57:13 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/why_do_so_many_positions_hurt 114253 Many girls do not reach their s*xual peak until their late 20's early 30's. Most teenagers, despite how long they have been having s*x/ masturba*ing, still can't get to the point of orgasm. There is nothing wrong with you. It just depends on your body. billietbee Wed, 12 Sep 2007 17:33:05 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/fingering_620 98333 You might want to see a doctor about it but it could also be a lack of lubrication. If there is not enough wetness, it could tear the vaginal wall, hence ccause bleeding. When you say that the bottom hurts, this is also most likely caused by dry friction. Try using a water based lubricant (water based lubricants don't damage the condom). Use a lot of it. If nothing improves, see your doctor about it. billietbee Wed, 12 Sep 2007 17:29:45 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/while_having_sex 98330 Yeah, I think it should go away after a while. Be aware though that when you first start to have sex the first couple of minutes for girls are usually painful. Even girls who have been doing it for years, the begining is usually quiet unpleasant. Just ask him to be patient and gentle. Maybe after 5-10 minutes it won't hurt anymore and you will acctually begin to enjoy it. I do advise you to use a lot of lubricant. Also sometimes, it might depend on the position. Maybe it isn't his size that is the issue but the possition. Try new things but be patient and take it slow. Good luck ! billietbee Fri, 07 Sep 2007 23:59:17 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/boy_friends 95992 It is totally up to you but like bettyboop said, it does make oral s*x a little easier. Also some guys who shave it really learn to love it because it makes their p*nis look bigger. billietbee Sat, 25 Aug 2007 22:15:00 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/should_i_shave_my_pubic_hair 90519 ok if what you guys did was ONLY what you described above ( grining with YOUR pants on and him eating you out) there is no way that you can be pregnant. First... if you were on top of him... with your pants on, there is no way that the sperm could get through your pants and up your v*gina, especially if he didn't cu*m. So that is virtually impossible. Secondly, you cannot get pregnant from oral sex. The only way you can get pregnant is if there is a fluid exchange between you two. Also in 99% of cases you only get pregnant when you have intercourse. From your description above it does not seem like you had intercourse. Do not worry. Like i said, if that is all you did, you are not pregnant. However if you did have intercourse at any point without protection or there was fluid exhange between you and your boyfriend then maybe you should wait for your next period and if it is unreasonably late take a pregnancy test. I hope this helped... if you need to talk don't hesitate to mail me. Good luck billietbee Thu, 02 Aug 2007 22:11:32 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/either_i_am_peranoid_or_i_am_preg 77954 Maybe you should reflect on how you feel and turn it into a question. * Would you ever give me another chance? * How do you truly feel about me now? * Do you regret ever being with me/ did you ever regret anything during our relationship? * Do you think about me a lot? I mean I honestly don't know your situation with this girl and as far as I know these questions could be irrelevant or already asked. Why don't you just tell her that you love her? At least you will let it out and maybe she feels the same way. I say just do it. Don't supress how you feel. Let her know. Good luck :) billietbee Sun, 29 Jul 2007 20:59:09 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/what_should_i_ask_her 75512 it is completely normal. It means that you are hitting puberty. You will probably start getting your perio soon. billietbee Fri, 27 Jul 2007 09:04:28 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/puberty_722 74632 Some girls mature faster and some take more time. I know that i wasn't ready to date when I was thirteen. I think that you should wait for a while though. You are too young and like sarah said, you should enjoy being a kid! That is something that you will never get back and there is time for dating when you get older. Relationships take a lot of work and it can be stressful so it wouldnt be a bad idea to hold it off for a while. billietbee Fri, 27 Jul 2007 08:59:20 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/how_old_should_i_be_to_date 74629 i think you are too young to be doing this too. But if you do do it make sure that he does not have an S T D. You either have to trust him with all your heart or take him to a clinic to get tested. You can get an S T D from giving a guy a b j so be smart about it. Also, he should put on a c*ndom when you give him a b j: this will reduce the chance of you getting an S T D if he has one. how to give a good b j? Well try different things and see how he reacts. Ask him what he likes and what he doesn't. Don't be shy to ask. billietbee Fri, 27 Jul 2007 08:54:39 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/giving_head_1109 74627 no. As long as you get your period you are not pregnant. Please use some kind of contraception if you aren't already. billietbee Fri, 27 Jul 2007 08:45:32 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/help_me_19 74625 Honestly, why would you even want to be with a guy who you think would move on to another girl once he gets bored. I mean you are only assuming this right now and this does not mean that he acctually would do this. I am not saying that you should break up with him because you think this but at the same time you should prepare yourself for this possibility. Do not get too attached to him if you do not trust him. Do not do whatever he wants you just so that he will stay with you either. If he does move on however, then he was clearly not worth keeping. It's an experience that will help you make better decisions in the future. billietbee Thu, 26 Jul 2007 20:55:18 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/my_bf_is_popular 74481 yes. There are no age restrictions to buying condoms. billietbee Thu, 26 Jul 2007 20:42:32 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/can_you_buy_condoms 74473 It's true, you may not be ready to make out with him but it could be self conciousness as well. You may be scared about what he might think. You might think that you would do it wrong or what he is going to think about your body and all that. Maybe you are just not comfortable with yourself and then you simply can't be comfortable with him. I think you will be ready to make out with him when you are comfortable with him and yourself and when you can trust him. billietbee Wed, 25 Jul 2007 11:26:06 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/boyfriend_39 73855 some girls just want attention. billietbee Wed, 25 Jul 2007 11:20:54 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/why_do_this 73854 No it is not right for her to keep you from him but parents always think that they know better. Although this is mostly true, they still do not understand that we live in a different time where things are clearly different from when they were your age. I am sure that your mom was somewhat ok with you seeing your boyfriend until she found out that you had s*x. She thinks that this gives her enough justification to forbid you to date until she thinks you can again. Now that she knows that you had s*x why don't you try to talk to her about it? Tell her that you are the one that knows when you are ready and she cannot decide this for you. Tell her that you are safe and you know enough to stay protected. I am sure she is still going to be one sided about it but you've already done it and there is nothing she can do to take that back. If I were you I would straight up tell her that you are still going to see your boyfriend because you really like him/love him and that she can't expect you to break up with him for such a stupid reason. Basically try talking to her nicely about it, explaining how much you care about him and that s*x is not as bad of a thing as she thinks it is. If this doesn't work then tell her that you are going to keep seeing him regardless what she sais. There is no reason that you should break up with him because she found out that you had s*x 2 years ago. billietbee Wed, 25 Jul 2007 11:18:49 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/im_17_and_my_mother_is_not_letting 73853 stuff your bra or get extra padded bras. But like llewellyn said.. why would you want bigger ones? YOu should be happy with what you are born with and if it is about guys.. trust me there are plenty of guys who don't care about breast size (and some even prefer them smaller) and those who do care are simply not worth it. billietbee Mon, 23 Jul 2007 22:54:33 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/boobs_33410 73358 I think you should still talk to your ex if you guys are good friend. I do not think that you should let a good friendship go to waste due to someone elses jelousy. I think you should talk to your boyfriend and reassure him that he is only a good friend of yours and that he should understand that you simply do not want to lose him as a friend. As long as it is nothing more than a friendship you should talk to your boyfriend about it. Even if you guys just talk, do not hide it from your boyfriend! If he found out I am sure he would assume that you guys are doing more than just talking! billietbee Mon, 23 Jul 2007 22:46:10 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/am_i_in_the_wrong 73353 It depends weather you asked him or if he straight out said it. If you asked him if he thought that these girls were pretty maybe he just wanted to be honest with you and aswered your question truthfully. In that case, I don't think you should be awfully worried.. but don't even ask him these questions! If he however said out of the blue that he thought that these girls were pretty it could be an indication that he is thinking about them and a clue that he might be into at least one of them more so than he would like to admit. I would say do not worry about it too much and don't drill him with questions about these girls. On the other hand always keep an eye on any further clues. billietbee Sun, 22 Jul 2007 21:57:22 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/help_188 73027 i dont think that you should deny how you feel. Having s*x with a boy in order to turn yourself straight is wrong. If you are into girls then you are into girls. You shouldn't deny it to yourself or to your monther. Just because she would be dissapointed in you and "disown" you doesn't mean that you should force yourself to be someone you are not. Do whatever you feel is right. If you like a girl and she likes you back go for it. If your mother can't take it lie to her. If she finds out then say that this is who you are and that her thinking that it's wrong won't make the way you feel about girls go away. Bottom line, be who you are regardless what others think. There is no reason to lie to yourself and what your mother doesn't know can't hurt her. billietbee Sun, 22 Jul 2007 21:45:12 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/help_me_please_36 73022 yeah i think you should ask your mom. Other then that maybe research polish names that start with O..? That's a long shot tho. If one rings a bell though why not get out a phone book and call those numbers.. i guess you would have to check phonebooks of many different regions. Lol yeah maybe you should just ask your mom. billietbee Sat, 21 Jul 2007 23:06:45 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/help_me_find_my_dadd_please 72749 the fluid on the condom could have been from her.. and it most likely was since you said that there was blood on it and girls can still bleed even after their cherry pops. If there was no hole in the condom and you did not e*acutlate in her then the chances of her being pregnant are very low. She most likely is not. Now for those symptoms that she has had, the nausea, the fact that her legs hurt and especially that there is blood in her urine means that there might be something wrong with her kidneys. She should go to a doctor to get that checked out. These are not likely signs of pregnancy and they wouldn't show up until at least 2-3 weeks after you had s*x. Take her to the doctor for potential kidney problems and if you still might think she is pregnant wait for her to get her period. If she gets her period when she is supposed to then that means that she isn't pregnant. billietbee Sat, 21 Jul 2007 22:58:23 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/is_she_pregnant_378 72746 Why don't you find a youth clinic in your neighbourhood. You should look it up on the internet. Basically you do not need to give them your name or anything but you can go in and ask for some condoms. They give them out for free and they won't judge. billietbee Sat, 21 Jul 2007 22:33:06 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/where_can_i_buy_condoms 72742 Why don't you find a youth clinic in your neighbourhood. You should look it up on the internet. Basically you do not need to give them your name or anything but you can go in and ask for some condoms. They give them out for free and they won't judge. billietbee Sat, 21 Jul 2007 22:33:05 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/where_can_i_buy_condoms 72741