http://www.funadvice.com/my/advice/amlah en-us I don't think your a lesbian at all, the same thing happened to me except for the liking girl part. I dated this guy for like 3 years then he cheated on me then after we broke up he went with my best frien. The people I trusted the most fucked me over, I felt like I went nuts I went crazy. I did do alot of partying, did kiss a girl but didn't feel anything by it then the crazyness died down. I felt better then I met this really good guy now 2ih a half years later we are together engaged and a baby. You just need to breath, give yourself time to wind down from the stress then you will know what you want or don't want. But cock is better :) amlah Thu, 01 Jun 2006 22:59:32 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/help_me_know_if_i_am_by_sexual_or 14207 Chew alot of gum drink alot of water the water helps get the toxins out oh and eat bananas they are supposed to have something in them to replace something that you need when your smoking. They take away some of the craving or something amlah Thu, 01 Jun 2006 22:51:31 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/pregnant_trying_to_quit_smokeing 14206 My son is almost a year old also I was also a party girl before him. But he made me realize that I (my fiance) brought him into this world he had no choice, so deserves to be loved the way he loves me back. I love him with all my heart and of course I miss the old days but it's not the old days anymore I have someone else to think about besides myself so I put all my energy love and care into him. Your not a bad mother for feeling that way but he does need you, it's not his fault for you not feeling a connection, there is a connection you carried him for 9 months he's a part of you and always will be. Just the thought of me not being there for my son makes me sad, your son needs you. amlah Thu, 01 Jun 2006 22:48:35 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/women_only_who_have_kids 14205 And plus if you thought like a 36 year old you would think a lot differently, because your 16. You want to give your baby all the things it need and wants and a sixteen the wants won't be in the picture, and plus does he want one. amlah Thu, 01 Jun 2006 00:53:20 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/wanting_a_baby 14158 I had a baby young 19 and I wouldn't take it back for the world but there are so many things I wish I could have done. I miss so many things like being able to go out with no worries. I love being a mom but please trust me on this one you only can be a teenager once and it is so much fun. It puts a strain on the realationship the sex. I hope he has a good job, he'll need one your own place. It's hard having all these responsibilites so young. Think hard about it it's something that will change your life in many different ways. Plus I have to say it you are too young are you done high school, do you plan on doing anything with your life. Put on a long hold if you want a baby. amlah Thu, 01 Jun 2006 00:50:11 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/wanting_a_baby 14157 Get checked, and wear condoms how do you think I got pregnant. amlah Thu, 01 Jun 2006 00:39:49 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/can_i_be_pregnant_1117 14155 I had lots of cramps, and was always uncomfortable. Taking a bath always helped but not too hot amlah Thu, 01 Jun 2006 00:38:15 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/pregant_and_having_cramps 14154 Go with a good friend of his and if he dosn't get jealous you'll know he dosn't care anymore. amlah Tue, 30 May 2006 23:04:02 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/my_ex_wants_her_i_want_him_jealous 14079 You know I used to do the same thing when I was younger I still have small boobs and Im 21 , this guy kept going for them and I didn't want him to know that my tits were actually small so what I did was slowlywear smaller bras down to what I really was. And if he didn't like them too bad. It was fine in the end. I just didn't want to be embarassed amlah Tue, 30 May 2006 22:57:01 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/boobs_relationships 14078