http://www.funadvice.com/my/advice/amaething en-us I never used to wear shorts at all in the summer when I was dressing like that, now Hot Topic makes shorts and capris though. I don't know if you are a guy or girl, sounds like a girl from the name, there are a lot of versions of skirts out now too. You can wear any of these just stick with a style unique to you even if it is punk or goth, make it your own amaething Sun, 14 May 2006 16:04:07 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/punks_goths 13251 Just talk to him as if he were sitting right in front of you. amaething Sun, 14 May 2006 15:59:35 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/what_can_i_say 13250 Size doesn't really matter, it'show you use it, some girls can take more because their vaginas open more, but trust me 6 1/2 is fine amaething Sun, 14 May 2006 15:57:55 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/so_does_size_matter_ladies_please 13249 If you don't treat a yeast infection it will only keep getting worse and can move higher in to your vagina. You can also develope a bacterial infection if you don't treat a yeast infection and bacterial infections can be very dangerous. Nothing will really happen if you use those and don't have a yeast infection. But I would seriously see a doctor to find out what is going on. If they say you have a yeast infection they will either give you a pill or you can opt to use the ones from the store. amaething Sun, 14 May 2006 15:56:00 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/is_this_normal_2115 13248 kinghfool really is a fool and is obviously a male. There is a few ways to know when a woman orgasms. Many women begin shaking, especailly in her legs, her vagina starts contracting or tightening and if she moans she will begin moaning either louder or faster, many women tense up and sometimes their back arches and yes, they get very wet. If you are curious about a certain girl look for these things and when you are finish, just ask her if she came. then you'll know for sure when she does. amaething Sun, 14 May 2006 15:42:58 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/women_and_orgasims 13246 Ask yourself a question. Can you really love a man who only want to sleep with you? Why waste time with a guy who doesn't even love you back, that only wants a piece of ass. If he wants another girl but still wants to sleep with you and only sleep with you then why are you still with him? Find someone who wants your mind AND your body, but your mind first. amaething Sun, 14 May 2006 15:33:37 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/unrequited 13245 Ok, this seems corney, but sit down with a mirror and explore what you look like. Rather than thinking it's nasty because vagina's aren't exactly pretty try to see what is most attractive because, guys like them, many guys think they are beautiful. Maybe when he does it you can turn out the lights, ask him not to look at it, have him under the covers. But if he wants to do it and you want him to do it just let him do it, after he does it you may feel more comfortable about him seeing it, but make sure you really want him to do it first. Then discover what you really look like tomake yourself more comfortable. amaething Sun, 14 May 2006 15:31:03 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/unusually_worried 13244 Ok, to begin with, DO NOT tell him to get another girl to do it with until you are ready like bubux said, that will totally destroy your relationship. Now, I think that what you need to do is discuss with him why he is so intent on you two having sex. If he loved you like he says he does then he would be patient and wait for you, he would not be so pressuring. You wait until you are ready and DON'T let him pressure you in to it, that's not right. amaething Sun, 14 May 2006 15:27:01 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/what_should_i_do_725 13242 I'm not in your situation but I have many friends who are in the same situation and ones that have made it through it. The best thing for both of you is just for you to go see him when you can and write to him as often as you can. It'll keep your relationship strong. Tell him what you do everyday and inquire about what he does, how he's enjoying himself. Try not to get too dresed up to go see him but make sure you look nice so that he has something to hold him through until the next time you see him, getting too dressy though will make it tougher to hold through and might upset him more. And stick in there, don't get discouraged and try to enjoy your time so you're still happy and ready to have fun when he gets out. good luck sweetie and stick tough! amaething Sun, 14 May 2006 15:23:42 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/advice_support_my_boyfriend_is_in 13241 Oh it's so simple, most girls just like intimate contact, touching her breasts is good, kissing her neck and her nipples works well too. With many girls while your kissing her rubbing her back or the back of her neck will work, some girls like to have their butts grabbed, just kiss her and work your magic, if she likes it she'll let you do it, if she doesn't she'll tell you. amaething Sun, 14 May 2006 15:19:38 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/sexual_pleasure_2540 13240 When a guy fingers a girl he is usually next to her with his hand over her but there is no certain position. If you are curious about sexual positions you can google sexual positions, there are many sites taht can show you basic positions, just be careful you don't stumble on porn sites. Also, popping a girls cherry is just breaking her hymen, it's the skin in the vagina that protects from dirt and such, it bleeds that's why they call it popping the cherry. amaething Sun, 14 May 2006 15:13:30 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/please_answer_i_m_clueless 13239 It is illegal everywhere (as far as I know) for anyone over 18 to date anyone under 18, under 17 their parents can press charges. 17 and over the minor can fight the parents charges but in many courts the parents still win. Usually it's statuatory rape, sexual assult or child molestation and you can go to jail. amaething Sun, 14 May 2006 15:11:08 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/age 13238 The most important thing is to TALK to her about it and figure out WHAT isn't satisfying. Maybe the positions you do it in are just getting overplayed, try switching it up, try setting a more romantic scene for the two of you, change things up and see how it works. The most important thing though is talking to her aobut it, communication is the key. Good luck! amaething Sun, 14 May 2006 15:09:11 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/not_able_to_satisfy_my_wife_during 13237 You can tell him you don't want to be played. If he wants you he can have only you. Basically just speak your mind. Practice what you want to say and if you think you are being a bitch about it then reword it before you talk to him. amaething Sun, 14 May 2006 15:04:22 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/relationships_3336 13236 To begin with if it was your first time he shouldn't have been rough on you, that wasn't right. But it is normal to be a little sore, especially if he was rough because he probably tore your hymen a little, the soreness will go away, just tell your sweetie to be a little more gentle next time. :) amaething Sun, 14 May 2006 15:02:34 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/please_help_me_498 13235 The best thing to do when you want to lose weight is to go and talk to your doctor. He or she can tell you anything you want when it comes to weight loss and they know your history and can tell you what will be best as far as full health goes. They can also help you monitor your weight and make sure that nothing is going wrong during the process. One minor thing you can do is to eat more fruit in the morning and cut out junk food and walk more. Just remember to love yourself for who you are, no matter what size you are, and any guy who isn't willing to love you for all of you is no good for you anyway. But definately talk to a doctor about weight loss. amaething Sun, 14 May 2006 15:01:23 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/how_to_loss_weight 13234 ok. There are about a million tricks and tips to giving head, unfortunately every guy likes things different. First you should try to make him hard before you give him head, this is easier on you. As far as holding it, a lot of guys hold their own penises but if he doesn't you can hold it at the base either with a couple of fingers or your whole hand, whichever is more comfortable for you, but don't hold it too tight. When you give head your mouth will be over his penis, be careful of your teeth because he is really sensitive. Basically you will be moving your mouth up and down on his penis, you can either leave your tounge at the back of your mouith or you can lay it over your bottom teeth and you will be licking his penis the whole time this way. When you come back up to the top of his penis (the head) you can either suck gently on this part or you can twirl your tongue around his head or, and here is a trick, you can flicker your tongue really fast on the underside of hid head where there is a little upside down v, this will drive most guys wild. After these few tricks it's mostly just what you are comfortable with and what he likes. As far as spitting or swallowing that is completely up to you. Many people don't like the taste so they spit it out, but you can swallow it if you want to. The easiest thing is to just keep kleenex by the bed and spit it in there, otherwise you can go to the bathroom and spit it down the sink, just be sure to rinse the sink afterward, it's ok to rinse your sink if you want to too. amaething Sun, 14 May 2006 14:57:18 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/giving_head_699 13232 Nope,lots of us are on......but it's mothers day so that's probably why it seems like there isn't.... amaething Sun, 14 May 2006 14:22:50 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/is_anyone_on_this_site 13230 I think that if you feel so strongly about telling them you should but if you are concerned about what they may do while you are underage perhaps you should wait until after you are out of the house to tell them unless you feel later that they may be more accepting of it. Just remember that your choice is your choice and you should not feel ashamed or belittled about it in any way, how you tell them is something that only you can decide so think about it and take your time. amaething Sun, 14 May 2006 14:22:00 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/how_do_i_tell_my_parents_1878 13229 The time that it takes for hickies to go away depends on how dark the hickey is. What you have to remember about hickies is that they are popped blood vessels just under the skin. One thing you can do to help is scrub on it with a toothbrush, this will bring out the blood from under the skin and it will be less dark, it will go away, don't worry, just cover it with some make-up for now..... amaething Sun, 14 May 2006 14:17:20 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/love_bites 13228 It's difficult in this case because what he sees a flirting may not be the same with you, you see it as being friendly he sees it as flirting, really the only thing you can do is talk to him about it and establish common grounds between the two and explain to him why you may do some of the things he considers flirting, remember, communication is the most important part of a relationship. amaething Mon, 17 Apr 2006 15:26:19 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/flirting_1738 11581 Soreness can signify penetration but so can rough foreplay. There really isn't much of a way to tell if you are still a virgin or not. Was there blood the next morning too? That may be one of the only other things to help. Because it was so long ago it woulod be very difficult for a doctor to determine if there was penetration or not as well, had you asked when you went in for the morning ater pill a doctor may have been able to look for stretching or "tracks" inside of your vagina to tell, but unless there was bleeding from a hymen or there is still a hymen left you can't really tell. But just remember that it was your first sexual experience but you didn't necessarily want it, You can still be a virgin in your eyes and an explination to your first partner of the situation will likely be understood too. amaething Mon, 17 Apr 2006 15:24:13 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/i_got_drunk_and_think_i_had_sex 11580 Well technically she could be showing already, but she really shouldn't as the only thing happening in her body right now (if it is only 4 weeks) is the developement of all of the baby's major organs, it isn't until the second trimester that the baby itself actually starts growing. If she is showing she is probably just eating a lot as most newly pregnant women develope major appetites. But if she is showing the chances are she is more than 4 weeks pregnant. What you could do is ask her again how far along she is and then just time along with the pregnancy. If it happens that she was 8 weeks or so and you feel that the baby could be yours you could demand a paternity test, but that's getting into all kinds of legal battles. Just stick through it man...but make sure she is safe, if this guy is still abusing her during her pergnancy he could end up killing or severly hurting the baby, and that's not good. amaething Mon, 17 Apr 2006 15:17:57 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/my_ex_is_pregnant_and_i_think_it 11578 Sometimes the sensations that a woman gets from her clitoris, especially if it is hyper sensitive, which it may be in her case, are often ticklish sensations or become to powerful and are painful then tickle, the leg shaking is norma becuase there are millions of nerve endings in the clitoris, which is what makes it so pleasurable to begin with. you should just ask her sometime, by now I'm sure there isn't much you two can't talk about.... amaething Mon, 17 Apr 2006 15:06:28 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/clitoris 11576 well it's too late for EC now but make sure your hunny doesn't do that again...it's so dangerous! amaething Sun, 16 Apr 2006 17:56:31 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/fingering_please_reply 11530