http://www.funadvice.com/my/advice/ally04 en-us Right now the worst thing you can do is keep bugging her, that would just annoyed her and push her away further. Face to face contact is working so try writing her a letter or email and explaining why you said what you said and saying sorry for that. The last thing a girl wants to hear, especially when they are dating a older guy is that the guy thinks she's too young. The girl probably already had insecurities about that already and the fact that you said that makes her think that you do too. ally04 Tue, 15 Apr 2008 15:04:55 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/problemo_yo 313211 Talk to him. Can't say it more simpler then that. Misunderstandings come from people not communicating and that can lead to people getting hurt. So the best thing you can do is talk to your friend and tell him that you're not interested in him that way. Or if you want to be on the safe side, as him what he's expecting or if he wants yall to go as just friends, something along those lines. It could be that he just wants you to go with him because he feels comfortable with you and thought you two would have fun together. ally04 Tue, 15 Apr 2008 13:53:33 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/just_friends_957 313149 Depending on when this happen, if you take a test it probably won't tell you anything. You can however go to the doctor or a free clinic and they can give you options and tell you when they would be able to tell if you are or not. Also some people still have their periods while pregnant so waiting until your period comes probably isn't the best thing. ally04 Tue, 15 Apr 2008 13:50:03 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/which_do_i_do_first 313147 Revenge is not the answer here because its an on going process. You do something to her and then she's going to want to do something back to you and so on. In the end this isn't going to solve anything. The best thing you could do is talk to her about it. Tell her why you're mad and ask her why she did it. If her reason isn't satisfactory to you or if she denies it then maybe you should start looking for other friends that are more trustworthy. But if you do this, she is probably going to wonder why you aren't talking to her anymore. The whole thing could be just a big misunderstanding or it could not be, the only way to find out for sure is if you talk to your friend. And do it in a calm manner you don't want her to go on defense because that tends to be when the lies come. Don't accuse her of anything until you hear her side of the story. ally04 Tue, 15 Apr 2008 13:47:35 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/dumb_friends 313146 In mythology hell hounds are a demonic dogs of hell. Hell hounds typically have features such as an unnaturally large size, a black fur color, glowing eyes, super strength or speed, ghostly or phantom characteristics, and sometimes even the ability to talk. They are often assigned to guard the entrance to the world of the dead or undertake other duties related to the afterlife or the supernatural, such as hunting down lost souls or guarding a supernatural treasure. source: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hellhound In regards to seeing a hell hound, I guess its all depends on what you believe. If you don't believe in hell hounds then it could just be your mind playing tricks on you. You should probably talk to someone who knows about this subject, they can help you more. ally04 Mon, 14 Apr 2008 13:15:42 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/hell_hounds_does_anyone_know_what 311605 In general sex buddies isn't a good idea because one or the other person might develop feelings and that can make things complicated. If you are going to go through with this, set some ground rules from the start (for instance: are you only allowed to sleep with each other etc.) and have a back up plan sorta in case things don't go as plan, (for instance, what happens if someone do develop feelings for the other person and so on) Also make sure you use protection because even if people do say that they are only sleeping with you, you don't know for sure if they are telling the truth or not so its better to be safe then sorry. ally04 Mon, 14 Apr 2008 12:38:20 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/sex_buddies_13227 311541 It seems to me like Chris has lost interest in Megan but is away to tell her but thats just an outsiders point of view. The only way to know for sure is to talk to him but since he isn't returning her phone calls that might not be easy. Maybe Megan should give him space and let him come to her when he's ready. ally04 Mon, 14 Apr 2008 12:27:15 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/bf_troubles_122125 311516 Alot of young people want babies but don't think about the responsibility until its too late. Theres a lot of things that goes into having a baby that you need to think about. First you have to talk to your mom. If she doesn't want you to have one and you still do you need to think about the possibility of her kicking you out. Cause then you would need a place to live and a steady good paying job. Finishing high school might be a good choice before having a baby because babies cost a lot of money. There's pampers, formula, clothes, wipes, bottles, baby food plus more. Then there's the things you and your boyfriend need for yourself. Then you need to think about whether or not you can handle a baby. They stay up all night and cry and then there's dirty diapers, if the baby get sick etc. You also would need good health insurance if the baby gets sick and you don't have insurance. You should really think about all this before deciding if you want a baby. And you should come up with a game plan if you got to your mom and family with it. The best thing to do is be up front and honest with your mom and listen to what she has to say even if she doesn't agree with you. That shows maturality and she might respect that. ally04 Wed, 09 May 2007 10:54:40 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/me_and_my_boyfriend_want_a_baby 54093 In my opinion, if a guy loves you, he would not be having sex with other girls. That is cheating and very disrespectful to you. He does not love you and you shouldn't be with a guy that isn't going to be faithful to you. Seems to me you are holding on to something that probably was once there but isn't anymore. ally04 Wed, 09 May 2007 10:44:44 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/damn_whats_going_on 54091 If this is your first date with the guy then you should talk and tried to get to know him better. Making out and having sex on a first day is usually a big no no because it makes the girl seem easy. A goodnight kiss or just a kiss here or there is okay. You could ask him what he likes to do, ask him about his family, hobbies, job etc. ally04 Tue, 01 May 2007 08:34:05 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/the_big_date 52021 You wanting him to wear a comdon has nothing to do with trust. He probably thinks that you don't trust him in terms of cheating. The best thing you can do is talk to him and explain your exact reasons for wanting him to wear a condom. If he still doesn't listen you can either not sleep with him until he does or get on birth control. ally04 Tue, 01 May 2007 08:22:22 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/i_want_to_use_a_condom_but_my_man 52019 My advice to you is to sit her down and tell her how you feel. Tell her what you just said, that you can't live without her and she's the best thing that ever happen to you. If you didn't already tell her exactly what happen. If there was something there that witness that and can vouch for you then tell them talk to her. Of course she still might not believe you cause they are friends. If she still doesn't believe you, the best thing you can do is give her time to trust you again, if its meant to be then you have nothing to worried about. ally04 Sun, 29 Apr 2007 11:35:50 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/how_do_i_convince_my_girl_i_haven 51531 If your really serious about this, sit him down and tell him how you feel. Tell him if he doesn't get up and get a job or at least help with the house and baby (if thats what you want) then its not going to work out with him. You can try cutting him off (no sex) but some guys have ways of getting what they want from you. The best thing to do is to talk to him and tell him how you feel and what you want from him. ally04 Sun, 29 Apr 2007 11:27:46 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/boyfriend_wont_work 51525 It seems like he just wants action and that he's using you to get it. My advice is to stop making out with him, if he comes back to you if you don't then maybe that means he likes you. But you shouldn't be with someone who can't make up their mind. If he can't pick a girl and stick with it, then maybe you should move on. ally04 Thu, 26 Apr 2007 16:20:19 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/does_he_just_wnat_action 50788 The only way to find out for sure is to talk to him. We don't know him or what he's thinking so we wouldn't know if he still have feelings for you. Talk to him and ask him if he still have feelings for you. Thats the only way to find out for sure. ally04 Tue, 24 Apr 2007 08:19:52 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/still_him 50105 In my opinion the best move would be to tell your mom but if you don't want to you don't have to. The have free clinics where you can go and get a pregnancy test and your parents would never know because they won't tell them. You really have to think of what is best for you and what you would think the right choice is. We can't tell you what to do, we can however give you suggestions and let you pick. ally04 Tue, 24 Apr 2007 08:15:56 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/im_15_with_a_big_problem 50104 It seems to me like your boyfriend wants to take things to the next level. If you don't want to go any further you should tell your boyfriend that. ally04 Sun, 22 Apr 2007 10:48:16 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/my_boyfriend_1324 49702 Maybe you should just go back to your own house or you and your boyfriend should gey your own apartment. It seems as if they don't want you there at all. Is there a specific reason you are there, besides the fact that your boyfriend is there? Is there a reason you can't go back to your own house with your parents? ally04 Sun, 22 Apr 2007 09:57:49 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/freeloader 49696 It is not your boyfriends house, its his mom's house. Its common courtesy that you are staying at you pay rent, clean and help with the bills. It seems to me that its not the fact that they don't like you, its the fact that you seem to be a freeloader. You have a home but your staying there and not helping out with anything. ally04 Sun, 22 Apr 2007 09:46:18 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/boyfriends_mom 49693 You can't, thats not possible. That would have to be a telepathy ability and there's no such thing as telepathy. ally04 Sun, 22 Apr 2007 09:42:18 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/how_can_i_contact_love_members_in 49691 The reason it hurts is because you are not suppose to have sex there. Your vagina can expand to fit a dildo or penis, your butthole cannot do that. ally04 Sun, 22 Apr 2007 08:48:00 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/why_does_it_hurt_1390 49685 Home pregnancy tests are not always accurate. The best you can do is to go to the doctors and get a blood test done to see if you're pregnant. You can also go to a free clinic, which does those tests for free. If you're not pregnant then there can be other explanations as to why your period is late. Some reasons include: Stress, Dietary problems , eg anorexia, bulimia or simply poor diet, Too much exercise, Drugs - prescription and recreational, Break in routine, Thoughts and emotions, Sexual activity - especially when it is a new occurrence, Anxiety about pregnancy, Illness or physiological imbalance eg thyroid conditions. The best to do is go to the doctor first before you throw out the possiblitiy of being pregnant. ally04 Sun, 22 Apr 2007 08:40:42 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/i_am_missing_my_period 49681 It sounds to me that if you're trying to make your ex jealous you're not over him and therefore you shouldn't be with your new boyfriend. Its not fair to him to used him to make someone else jealous. ally04 Sun, 22 Apr 2007 08:31:40 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/hhhhhhh 49679 Basically it is safe to have sex anytime you are not ovulating. To check your ovulation cycle and learn more go to this site: www.menstruation.com.au ally04 Sun, 22 Apr 2007 08:29:50 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/sex_on_my_period_with_a_condome_and 49678 It sounds to me the guy only wanted one thing from you. He probably thinks that if you two remain friends then he could get it anytime you come out there. The best thing to do is to talk to him. See what kind of friends he wants to be, whether its friends with benefits or just plain friends. Let him know what you want to and not just what he wants. If he wants to be friends with benefits and you don't then tell him that and tell him that you don't want to be friends on the DL cause if you are just friends why do you have to hide it. ally04 Sun, 22 Apr 2007 08:23:00 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/boys_suck 49676