http://www.funadvice.com/my/advice/advisor4uu en-us i dont know what to say for you. all i could say is try moving on but i know its hard to move on from someone who you really like. and if you cant get with him then what could i say. you could talk to him and tell him how much you like him advisor4uu Wed, 15 Jun 2005 18:10:08 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/i_cant_get_over_him_849 2286 you should see easily that you should move on, and that he dont feel for you like he do. if he say he got a gf then he does and i feel like your bothering him to much or getting or his nerves. i hate to put it out like this but he doesnt like you. you dont need to get him jealous cause you cant get a boy who dont like you jealous, but if you stop calling him and stop asking him out then probably he'll start thinking why havent you called him. now when i boy likes you he wouldnt NEVER forget to try to get your number especailly if you have to call him back asking him do he have you number advisor4uu Wed, 15 Jun 2005 18:06:31 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/please_help_me_i_am_in_misery 2285 wow thats devesating i dont know what to say about the situation. i know that it wouldnt be enough to think about an divorce. You really caught her doing secretive mess. i know a marriage shouldnt contain any secretive info of each other. if you have faith in god, he is your best therapiest. thats if your not an atheist. go to him and pray about the situatiton advisor4uu Tue, 14 Jun 2005 00:08:36 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/seven_year_itch 2255 i really wish i could help you but the first 2 paragraphs i dont understand what you were talking aobut and i wish i could really help you, but probably you could just rewrite what you needed help with, im so sorry. i just get the thing about the printer, who came over and who were you speaking to for two hours. just please write back and make sure you reread what you wroke and stay clear, vivid, and to the subject advisor4uu Tue, 14 Jun 2005 00:01:43 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/i_still_feel_for_my_ex_girlfriend 2254 what could you do? i dont even know what advice you want lol. If your in love, your in love i couldnt give you no advice. Besides your hearing good things about this boy, him liking you. but you need to be careful you may jsut be having a HUGE crush or in other words the feeling your feeling is Lust. Lust feels like love but Love is something offical, you can say you love someone when you spend ALL your time with them and have been through up's and down's. Now im sure your feeling Lust because you barely spend time with him, but lust can turn into love. now of course he wouldnt say he love you especailly not yet since he dont go with you. but i couldnt say more but to keep talking to him and hopefully you and him will go out and you can still have your heart beat 180 miles per hour, but dont have a panic attack lol. but i hope the best for you and him and hopefully you can feel the real feel of love. (im not a grown woman even though i know i sound like an adult, im only 14 to believe it) advisor4uu Mon, 13 Jun 2005 23:52:02 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/i_think_i_am_in_love_an_i_only_11 2253 i believe that all that does mean something, i believe he does like you. but just go up to him and ask him does he like you. but really all that does mean something advisor4uu Mon, 13 Jun 2005 19:57:50 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/hey 2250 i believe there is something totally wrong with that picture, i understand when she say he is cute a few times but when she keep talking about him you need to stop her and tell her you dont appericate that, i know you dont. also ask her is there anything going on between them and just ask him but dont make the deal big for you and him to break up. you just dont need her saying he's cute ALL THE TIME advisor4uu Mon, 13 Jun 2005 19:55:03 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/jelousy 2249 im sooooooooo sorry but could you please rewrite your questions because i can not understand what your asking nor what your writiing, sorry and also make sure you stick to the point advisor4uu Mon, 13 Jun 2005 19:50:07 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/tell_me_what_2_do_976 2248 Well i believe you should put the "game" on him, trust me boys best friends who are telling you that, NEVER LIE! Boys sometimes get scared to ask a girl out because they believe that we will turn them down, especially since he went out with your friend, he probably thinks that you wont go with him since he went out with you friend. Babygirl you need to take the chance to ask him because if you look in the future and find out that he liked you but didnt want to ask you out, your gonna be thinking to yourself "why didnt i ask him out!!" so you need to just ask him. And think of it, since he's friend said he like you, he like a girl that start with a Sa, and flirts with you. then there's a HIGH chance that he likes you, but on every good thing theres a bad thing, which is him flirting with your friend. But that 3 against 1...(in other words) 3 good things against 1 bad thing. so take the chance advisor4uu Mon, 13 Jun 2005 19:45:53 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/a_boy 2247 well for boys to cum, it takes awhile and patience. When your doing your handjob you dont need to be focusing on him cumming, but making sure you are confindent, are you? if you are, your good! some boys probably dont like the fact that they are going to cum when they are having a handjob, because then they will think you think that they can cum easy and is a "one-minute-man". but before you give a handjob try something different, like kissing and talking sexy and freaky, that makes a boy hard when he thinks of the things you say you want to do to him. then (if you know his hot spot) kiss him there and play with his hot spot then slowly move into his pants and do what you do girlfriend. you know you can go on the internet and look up other techniques about how to make a boy cum too. advisor4uu Mon, 13 Jun 2005 19:36:49 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/handjobs 2246 it could be confusing when your nervous and trying to do it right, but I believe if you do it so it can feel good to you, its going to feel good for him. You could go on the internet or a search engine and look up on how to do a good hand job, I believe that an easy way to give an hand job is to have him sitting and you and him alone. Probably at the movies or at home, but dont have everybody surrounding like at a skating ring. but going on the internet is the best way to find out about handjobs advisor4uu Mon, 13 Jun 2005 19:29:05 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/i_really_want_to_give_my_boyfriend 2245 well its hard, i know for your first time. You could talk to him and tell him that you have feelings and that wasnt cool wat he said. but since it was your first time, i know you could be shy so you can just ignore it because the teasing isnt going to last forever, you know that advisor4uu Mon, 13 Jun 2005 19:20:49 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/did_i_do_the_right_thing 2244 Im gonna tell you from the get go that he is going to be upset that your going to hook up with another person and when he find out that you like his friend he's really gonna be mad, theres no way you can slide past that not unless you have a down low relationship with his friend, but if they were best friends he wouldnt keep nothing like that from him, anyway. Make sure what your feeling is not lust cause lust can be like love but really isnt. now i dont know your bf so i dont know if he will still be your friend but if you like his friend you just gonna have to take a chance, in life we gotta choose, make decisions, and take chances. so im just gonna wish the best for your but thats what i say advisor4uu Mon, 13 Jun 2005 09:59:08 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/who_should_i_choose_i_am_so_confused 2231 i know its hard with times like this, but when a baby is in the picture i believe its time to get up and let go. You dont have to lose a best friend but the boyfriend is what need to be lost. i know its hard when you put your all in some things and they dont work out how you like them but thats life and when your smart enough to go back and redo what fell down (you and him) and he doesnt want to, then you may just have to lose him. You and him can still be friends but now i dont think you should rush him back in a relatioship, just be his friend and when he calms down probalby he'll go back to being your bf. but until then be friends and i wouldnt give him none if me and him were gonna be friends...cause then he's using you advisor4uu Mon, 13 Jun 2005 09:40:23 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/he_says_he_doesn_t_want_me_i_don 2230 to me age doesnt matter but i have never messed with anyone that was 7 years older than me. i would say no but you got to think about why you want to hook back up with him, it shouldnt be because he has a nice body. and parents can give you good advice too, so its up to you but be careful advisor4uu Mon, 13 Jun 2005 09:32:59 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/dose_age_matter 2229 well i believe being friends would be good for the both of you, because you cant make him say that he wants to hook up with you and since people are telling you that he is a player, being friends would be good. Just tell him how you feel and you got to wish for the best. but until he come to some senses being friends would be good advisor4uu Mon, 13 Jun 2005 09:29:47 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/i_cant_get_over_him_and_in_a_way 2228 well i see how you feel but think ITS GOOD TO TELL HIM NOW BEFORE IT GETS ANY LATER. i know you would hate it if you went with him and didnt even like him like that. so just sit with him tell him that you love him like a friend but you dont believe you and him could get any close. if you tell him you go with someone that would defiently let him see the light more. just because you tell someone no, it doesnt mean your breaking there heart, BUT ITS THE WAY YOU SAY IT THAT WILL BREAK SOMEONE HEART. advisor4uu Sat, 11 Jun 2005 01:09:50 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/how_to_break_it_to_him_easy 2207 GIRL YOU HAVE YOU A MAN. that boy still likes you and is just getting confused. Probably in those 2 days he just wanted some time to himself, people always need time to themself. i believe you need to ask him do you and him go out and you SHOULD call him. he's just going through a ruff time right now, so just sit there and be by his side, cause every relationship has there ruff times. BUT HE LIKES YOU advisor4uu Sat, 11 Jun 2005 01:03:12 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/my_bf_broke_up_with_me_but_he_still 2206 i just answered a question for you a minute ago and to me it looks like you and your gf are having alot of problems... well you really need to talk to her because in your relationship you and her is lacking trust, which is a REALLY BAD THING. 1st of all you dont play with her when she comes back from a party do you? saying things like did she doing anything crazy, or asking questions about what she did. if you do then thats probably why she dont believe you, all i can say is that you really sit down and talk to her about you and her lacking trust in each other advisor4uu Sat, 11 Jun 2005 00:59:14 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/my_girlfriend_dosnt_think_i_trust 2205 well this is wat relationships is for. well 1st probably shes on her peroiod, but if that not it, then you need to know that your there for her through her ruff times. but she needs to tell you whats wrong so you can support her, tell her you wont telll nobody and you will be able to support her on whatever it is. Its bad to hide things from each other in a relationship especially if its upsetting someone in the relationship or have the other person worry. or you could just ignore it but i know its hard to ignore so take that 1st advice. advisor4uu Sat, 11 Jun 2005 00:54:49 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/my_girlfriend_is_a_little_upset_right 2204 a hand job defintion doesnt say the boy HAS to bust a nut. YES you gave a hand job, jsut didnt finish it. any stroking or rubbing with you hand on a boys penis is a HAND JOB. COGRATULATIONS. you say that you gave a hand job, especially since he enjoyed it lol, you go girl!! advisor4uu Sat, 11 Jun 2005 00:45:39 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/have_i_givin_a_hand_job_or_not 2202 i hope the best for you and ill praying for you and thinking about you advisor4uu Sat, 11 Jun 2005 00:41:37 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/i_lost_my_virginity_to_my_boyfriend_1041 2201 well 1st of all i hope your age appropiate and not a young buck, cause if you are then you may be in some big TROUBLE ON MEETING A MAN. and im sure you dont want a man if your a teen or even younger. WELL IF YOUR YOUNG AND HE TOLD YOU THAT HE WAS 16 OR SOME AGE HOW WOULD YOU KNOW HE WONT LIEING? even if he showed you a picture, he may have just got it off the internet and showed it to you. anyways if you were age appropiate i hope you know that you put that on you and no one could really help, all i could tell you is that you get back on the internet and tell him that you lied about you being skinny and all that other stuff. but you sound young to me and i promise you, that you shouldnt meet someone off the internet especially if you told him your real age. im just 14 and know you shouldnt meet no one off the internet, i promise thats my age though, so im no grown person. but you could either tell him you lied or just meet him and he'll find out the truth there. advisor4uu Sat, 11 Jun 2005 00:35:43 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/i_told_someone_a_relation_lie_is 2200 well this is confusing, but when you said that she calls you back telling you stuff, what do she be telling you? that they did something or other mess. well 2nd of all how do you know that he is cheating on you with this girl/how do you know he's cheating on you period. well i wouldnt believe that he would be cheating on you with a girl and then call you from there, cause thats just giving up his game/showing his pimp game. now if she was telling you that they did something you couldnt always believe the girl she may be lieing and just trying to get you and him to break up. but probably she's calling you because she think you dont mind because you be calling there. if someone were to call my house every now and then, then i would think they wouldnt have a problem when i call there. but if its a real problem tell her that you dont have no problem with her but you would like it if she wouldnt call you house, but you would have to stop calling her too. now if she told you that he was cheating on you with her you can just get him, you and her together and truth is sure to get out, that cant be hard to get them together since he do be at her house. but if hes cheating on you i dont think it was meant to be advisor4uu Sat, 11 Jun 2005 00:28:20 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/brandy 2199 WOW... still playing those games huh? well i was a pro at them but i have to tell you, you gotta watch wat your doing. because you may be making a mistake! do you know your ex boyfriend GOOD?? well if you do then probably you can go on and TRY making him jealous. but THE OTHER SIDE, you never know your boyfrined may be shy and may still like you and when he see you with another boy it may just break his heart and make him move on. so watch out but if you know that it wont break his heart and make him move on, you could flirt with other boys or when you see your ex somewhere by you start talking to a boy and smile and make it look like you flirting... but im telling you, you gotta watch out. cause i tried this same thing and this is wat made me stop playing those games. i went with this fine boy and sweet one, we broke up and he said some things to make me mad, well he did make me mad about what he said. so i went with his cousin, he also thought when i was going with him i was talking to his cousin but it wont true. it broke his heart in half. felt good at the time, to have broke his heart but i never got him back. Later, like 5 months, i was talking to my ex boyfriend's friend and he told me that when i broke up with my ex that he wanted to go back with me but didnt want to tell me cause he thought i didnt like him no more since i was with his cousin. but i was over him by then. also if you could remember, if your bf ever thought you were cheating on him or flirting with another boy when you were going with him, flirt with that boy, but be careful!! advisor4uu Sat, 11 Jun 2005 00:19:07 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/jealous 2198