http://www.funadvice.com/my/advice/adidas247n en-us Your story sounds understanding...but being a women, I feel as if your need is only based on attraction. What if you do go out with her, and something more than just "talking" happens? I believe that you may just be sexually attracted to her? Do you even know if she has a wonderul personality, or if she's a great person to be around? If you don't...then do you want to risk finding out? Are you in this for the SEXUAL interest, or GETTING TO KNOW HER?? What does your she have that your wife doesn't? It sounds like attraction! adidas247n Sun, 01 Jun 2003 17:47:40 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/should_i_cheat_on_my_wife_why_not 115 I completely understand where you are coming from. 100% I'm in the exact same situation, as far as the getting married eventually, and being the love of each other's life part. You know...I don't exactly have advice, but maybe I can help you look at things in a different way! I almost tried seeing somebody else after a fight, and you know what? I had a good time, but I saw nothing more than friendship. I can't feel the kind of love that I feel for my bf, for anybody else. I went to his house that day and all I had to do was look at him standing by the door, and I just stood there by my car. Instantly we ran towards each other and that was that! We are definetly inseperable, and nothing...NOTHING can pull us apart, no matter how bad the fights get. And believe me, they get UGLY! You just need to evaluate how STRONG your love is for each other, and if you can live your life w/o him. adidas247n Sun, 01 Jun 2003 17:37:31 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/i_have_no_clue_what_todo 114