http://www.funadvice.com/my/advice/abaa en-us Women's rights, such as having abortions illegal, and the state of sexual education in the USA. Abortion rights are ABSOLUTELY NECESSARY, and if it is made to be illegal, women will still get abortions, just more unsafe ones that could endanger their lives. Other people have NO right to tell a woman what to do with HER own body. To do otherwise is to tell her that she is not in control of her own reproductive rights, which means her own human rights. Just by reading some of the posts on the health boards, today's youth who have been "educated" by the abstinence only programs currently taught today have some serious issues with knowing correct information about sex and STD's. Some kids still think that masturbating can lead to growing hair on your palms and that oral sex can get you pregnant! By not teaching about contraception and only relying on abstinence, there is a huge spike in teenage pregnancy, STDs and sexual ignorance. I'm sorry, but if John McCain gets elected as president, we're ALL DOOMED. He doesn't even know if condoms can help prevent STDs, and advocates abstinence only programs! And his recent promise to make abortions illegal is horrifying and sexist. abaa Wed, 16 Apr 2008 19:33:07 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/your_biggest_concern 314944 Sword. Anything that has ammo will eventually deplete and then you have no weapon! And ride a bike, they don't run out of gas like cars! ;) abaa Wed, 16 Apr 2008 19:13:26 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/best_weapon_against 314919 You can also go to the doctor yourself... abaa Wed, 16 Apr 2008 19:10:13 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/i_m_16_and_9_weeks_pregnant 314916 Religion has nothing to do with whether a person is bad or good. Your actions judge this. That's it. abaa Wed, 16 Apr 2008 19:07:03 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/no_religon_make_someone_bad 314910 I'm not a christian, but it is possible to have sex without breaking the hymen of the vagina (not that every woman even has a hymen anyway.) Perhaps this is what is meant by a "virgin birth." Plus in all honesty, if you had sex outside of marriage and were a woman, you were usually killed, so who isn't going to say that they didn't have sex? Mary just happened to get pregnant and maybe just said that God did it so that no one would harm her. Just some food for thought. abaa Wed, 16 Apr 2008 19:01:57 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/virgin_mary_67962 314901 Leopards don't change their spots! Find someone new. abaa Wed, 16 Apr 2008 18:50:24 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/girls_520 314887 Ok. If you don't ovulate, then you can't get pregnant. That's it. Now figuring out when you ovulate is a different story, and you most probably will ovulate every month until menopause, when ovulation stops completely. So use protection! abaa Wed, 16 Apr 2008 18:49:34 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/any_chance_of_this 314885 Sorry but brian the cervix is at the very top of the vagina, and the opening of the uterus. What your boyfriend is probably feeling is your g-spot, and is actually something that you'd want your boyfriend to find while fingering you! Keep stroking it and you may get the urge to pee, but go with it and you could get a great orgasm from it! abaa Wed, 16 Apr 2008 18:43:03 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/whats_in_my_vagina 314877 As long as you keep up strong communication, there is no reason as to why other people's opinions should matter. abaa Wed, 16 Apr 2008 18:32:35 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/emo_love_in_jeopardy 314864 I'd say that it sounds a little fishy to me, because you ALWAYS have to be wary of people you meet on the internet. But if you must meet up with him, do it somewhere public like a mall and MAKE SURE to bring your parents! You can never be too careful! abaa Wed, 16 Apr 2008 18:29:01 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/can_we_ever_be_together_sos 314857 In all honesty if your boyfriend is dating other girls when you have an exclusive relationship, it's called cheating and you should break up with him. Find someone else who treats you the best, not just OK! abaa Wed, 16 Apr 2008 18:26:20 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/my_boy_friend_and_his_friends 314853 Easy, ASK! Communication is THE most important aspect of a relationship. You won't know when a girl is ready to have sex unless you talk about it and what she is comfortable with. But pretty much you'd also have to go through the beginning stages of foreplay too, obviously. Everyone's different, and the only way to know for sure is to talk about it with your girlfriend. abaa Wed, 16 Apr 2008 18:22:57 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/how_do_u_no_when_a_girl_is_ready 314848 I'd say go with none of them. #1 doesn't respect you enough to keep a long distance relationship. #2 Took advantage of your vulnerability and kissed you after you broke up with #1 and then pretty much stabbed you in the back by asking someone else to the dance. You don't even care about #3, and #4 is dating your friend. I say wait for someone who's a real man, it'll be a lot less drama. You don't need to have a boyfriend to have fun or have value as a person! You just have to be true to yourself and do what's best for you. abaa Wed, 16 Apr 2008 18:18:20 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/help_me_please_621 314837 Well are you guys dating? And how old are you? And your friends should be more supportive and disapprove of him for real reasons such as if he is abusive, manipulative, etc instead of looks. abaa Wed, 16 Apr 2008 18:07:54 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/what_should_i_do_759 314808 Not everyone will have their "cherry popped." When I had sex for the first time, I did not bleed at all, even though it did hurt and took a while inching everything in slowly. I don't think people should worry about it. Some people bleed, others won't! It's no big deal! abaa Wed, 16 Apr 2008 18:04:32 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/getting_your_cherry_popped 314800 How about having a serious conversation with him about your feelings? You have to tell him that you want an exclusive relationship if you want one, or else he might get the wrong idea and still date other women. If he can't man up and have this conversation with you, then he's probably not worth it anyway. abaa Wed, 16 Apr 2008 17:44:56 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/going_too_fast 314756 I don't think that girls would think it's "nasty." It's your natural state, so what's wrong with that? As long as you're clean, there is no reason why a girl would care. And if she does, then find someone who accepts you for the way you are! abaa Wed, 16 Apr 2008 17:41:19 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/foreskin_142227 314747 The right time is when you feel that you are comfortable enough to have sex without being pressured into it. There's no set amount of time to wait, just when you feel that it's right for yourself, which could be tomorrow or in 20 years. abaa Wed, 16 Apr 2008 17:33:04 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/personal_question_55439 314735 Masturbation is not a bad thing and will not hurt you. Ever. 2-3 times a week seems pretty sparse anyway. For males masturbation even can help reduce risk of prostate cancer. Everyone masturbates, even if they don't want to admit it! I do, and it's nothing to be ashamed of! abaa Wed, 16 Apr 2008 17:17:39 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/i_mastrubate_3_times_a_week_suggest 314715 It's possible but unlikely, since sperm usually lasts about 5 days inside of your vagina, and ovulation occurs about 14 days from the last day of your cycle. It all depends on when you ovulate, and everyone ovulates at different times. But if you're trying to get pregnant, then what's the problem with trying later? ;) abaa Wed, 16 Apr 2008 17:09:47 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/some_help 314704 Take a home pregnancy test after she's missed her first period. You can get a home pregnancy test at a pharmacy and they give pretty accurate results after the first month of missing a period! abaa Wed, 16 Apr 2008 17:06:38 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/how_do_i_know_if_shes_pregnant 314698