http://www.funadvice.com Relationships are tough, especially if you're in one of those long standing ones and you are thinking if you should move on, or take it to the next level. Ask a question, or read other relationship questions. en-us Mi friend nicole dated this guy carlos for bout 2 years (rember were in middle school) she is in love with this kid I know most of you think were to young to be in love but I really think she is! And they broke up bout 4 times and gotten back together she has dumped him all those times a couple times because of things she heard from people like hes cheating and ect. But hes always taken her back anyway he got suspended and was away for a few months and she liked him the whole time she asked him back out when he came back he said yea but the next day he didnt ever talk to her she went to him and asked why and she said its not to late to still say no and he said well then its no he had said because she changed but she and I dont think she has! But anyway should she just give up or try to get him back and if yes how? And (hes the type a guy who didnt screw up he was an awesome boyfriend) crazyassbitch21 Tue, 13 May 2008 17:17:17 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/emergency_help_36030 229759 I'm a 23 yr old guy. I haven't been in any type of serious relationship ever since my ex of about 3 years and I broke up in college...ever since then I've gone from girl to girl and I usually have one night stands. I've been happy for the most part because I'm never the one that gets hurt and I love being able to do whatever I want without worrying about what my significant other is doing. However, about 5 months ago I met this drop dead gorgeous girl through my younger sister and we hit it off like no other. She was rough around the edges and a bit abrasive, but I liked it because I was always into goody goody type girls. Anyway, my sister warned me she was a little crazy and liked to party a lot and told me not to get involved with her because shes a heartbreaker...well, of course I didnt listen and I went out with this girl. Anyway, she liked me so much...so much she would txt and call me all day long...Funny thing is that I usually would get turned off by this but for some reason I liked it and the more we hung out the more I fell...Usually im on the defense because I got hurt in my last relationship but this time I was so confident she loved me that I let my guard down. I even neglected the fact that she was a borderline alcoholic, had what I think is some type of bipolar disorder, and is regarded as being extremely promiscuous!!!...but she would tell me things like "you're perfect" and "I've never felt this way about anyone" and we had some of the best, most exciting and intimate moments of my life ... Within 2 months we were saying "I love you" and everything was actually great... one night we even acknowledged the fact that she had problems and she told me that I was one of the good things in her life that was helping her overcome them and that she needed me. Her family even loved me like a son! Then...she went back to college for her last semester and called me one day after she had been acting strange and told me that she rushed into the relationship and wanted to break up. I asked her why and she just kept telling me that I was great but she didnt want to be with anyone and wanted to enjoy her last semester. I was shocked. I even called her mom after and SHE couldnt believe it either...a few days later I found out from my sister that my ex met another guy and realized that she couldnt be with just one person. Well, its been 3 months and I'm somehow worse with no sign of ever getting over this girl...apparently shes been with about 3 different guys since me...my sister told me that I was the only guy that my ex has ever been serious with and she truly cared about me but told me to just move on because she'll never change. I've come to the realization that this girl is not right for me and I've tried literally every piece of "getting over your ex" advice out there...nothing is working and I think about this girl EVERY day. Can anyone out there help me??? blah42 Tue, 13 May 2008 17:13:05 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/still_cant_get_over_an_ex_i_know 229757 what does it mean when boy says you got him pu**y woop??? sexxygurl Tue, 13 May 2008 17:04:54 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/what_does_it_mean_229754 229754 Would you be okay with the three following situations: #1. You have a boyfirend, who you trust very much. And a bestfriend(girl, and has a boyfirend of her own) who you trust very much. your boyfriend and bestfriend live very close to eachother. Would you be okay with them hanging out together without you? Would you get jealous? #2. Would you be okay with your bestfriend and boyfriend sleeping over at your bestfriends boyfriend's house? And it sucks because you can't. #3. How would you feel if everyday after school, your boyfriend and bestfriend and bestfreinds boyfriend, all get picked up by your bestfirends boyfriends dad to go home, but they do things like go out to eat and stuff without you. Would you feel kinda left out? Please respond... lovemyvarona Tue, 13 May 2008 16:50:26 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/three_situations_i_need_your_opinons 229750 I've been living with my boyfriend for 2 years now. EVERY time we get into the tiniest of arguments, he tells me to pack up and go home! It wasn't always like this. I know he loves me, but he's been saying it more and more often. We used to be laughing and having fun constantly but he has become so angry and bitter and I really can't put my finger on it. Could I be doing something wrong or is he just trying to get rid of me in a easy way? goddesszeppelin2 Tue, 13 May 2008 16:47:04 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/love_or_hate 229749 Does anyone think it's weird that someone is 23 years old and has never been kiss or had sex?? she a very shy person but she not ulgy amor Tue, 13 May 2008 16:24:01 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/weird_neverr_been_kiss_or_had_sex 229744 well mii friend Jamie(girl) likes mii friend Carson(boy). mii other friend Delmarie asked out Carson for jamie. he said he would think about it. and the next week...Carson is going out with our other friend Kristine. and Carson didnt even tell Jamie that he was going to say no. he just went out with Kristine. Is that rite??? funadvice Tue, 13 May 2008 16:20:19 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/is_this_right_38771 229742 WhAt iF your sNeAkInG To tAlK 2 your mOmS 24 yEaR OlD FrIeNd WhO LiKeS you AnD WaNtS To mArry you Iz tHaT wRoNg 2 StArT A ReLaTiOnShIp wItH a mAn wHeN your oNlY 16 bOuT 2 Be 17 YeArS OlD? hispanicloverbri91 Tue, 13 May 2008 16:19:59 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/iz_it_wrong 229741 Well. I like this girl in mii school and I had asked if she would ever go out with me and she said no. But she keeps flirting with me. I have a girlfriend but she doesnt know. And she doesnt know how I feel bout her. Im confused. Does she like me or not??? Any other ways to tell if someone likes u??? And by the way. Im a girl and im bi. funadvice Tue, 13 May 2008 16:10:12 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/does_she_like_me_or_not_26040 229738 my friend has ignored me pretty much all of this year... I havent heard that she's been talking about me or anything... but she used to call every day and now she hasnt called in like 6 months! she asked me the other day at school if I though she was mad at me... and I told her a little. she said she wasnt and had no clue why I would think that... but im still not sure... do you think she's mad? its just peculiar behavior, you know? ringleader8 Tue, 13 May 2008 16:09:21 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/friend_problems_328 229737 So I had to write a villanelle for an assignment. It's funny because I dreaded writing it, but it just all came out so easily. Let me know what you think. Just when I thought that you were here to stay, You told me just to listen and stay strong. (I need you-- please, oh please, don’t go away.) You told me that your feelings turned to grey. I bit my lip but still I went along. (Just when I thought that you were here to stay.) And on you went. I knew not what to say. (Deep breath) Just then I heard the awful song. I need you-- please, oh please, don’t go away. You told me what you’d done. I felt betrayed. You said together we did not belong, Just when I thought that you were here to stay. I burst in tears and that is when I say, (These words you spoke, they felt so very wrong.) “I need you! Please, oh please, don’t go away.” You turned your back and walked right out that day. The time you took to reach the door felt long. Just when I thought that you were here to stay. I need you-- please, oh please, don’t go away. keelmart Tue, 13 May 2008 16:05:39 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/what_do_you_think_of_my_poem_100579 229734 Ok so im pretty much together with this guy named jake and I like him a lot. Hes 16 and im 14 which isnt that big of a deal. But yesterday I went and hung out with and old crush of mine named Zach. Hes only 15 and my mom likes him better than Jake. Only one problem. My friend Katie likes Zack. Shes like obbsesed. But she does this all the time. He doesnt like her at all. She changes boy intrests daily so I don't know how long this obbsession is going to last, well neways While we were hanging out yesterday zack kissed me. and I didnt stop him. I still really like him. but I don't know if I should tell jake and katie what happened. Jake doenst even like me hangin with him he would hate me if he found out. Katie I don't know. she knows I like him but still... I don't know what to do. Will someone pleasee help me?? justineahhx12 Tue, 13 May 2008 16:00:42 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/what_should_i_do_im_so_confusedd 229732 how come nobody talks to me??? shawtygirl1115 Tue, 13 May 2008 15:40:25 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/nobody_talks_to_me 229730 ok my period is really irregular and I havent had it in like 4 or 5 weeks now. is there anything I can do to make it start coming regular again? jadeblue5 Tue, 13 May 2008 15:25:55 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/can_you_help_me_86822 229727 Today during class, I was asked to explain about how girls have orgasims and why, and I wasnt 100% sure how to explain it, now im stuck with writing and paper going into extremem detail about it, and I dont know!!! Someone please help!!! hubberz Tue, 13 May 2008 15:18:34 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/sex_education_229724 229724 Ok, my friends boyfriend lives in England and she really wants to see him this summer, his mom loves her and she wants them to meet up, but his dad is a tough one and he is nervous about his mom asking, he even has all the money himself, so, what can he do or say to get his dad to let him go to see Emily? Help please. hubberz Tue, 13 May 2008 15:17:21 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/help_229721 229721 this is mainly for guys but gurlz can answer to ... when a boy has a girlfriend and he hugs other gurlz does that mean anything or juts bein friendly? crazyassbitch21 Tue, 13 May 2008 15:13:44 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/is_it_okay_38771 229720 Does anybody ever wake up and take a look around, think for abit and say to yourself you want better? Like you just want to pick everything up and take off to find a more exciting and better life? Somewhere that seems perfect in your eyes... djwager Tue, 13 May 2008 14:49:38 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/do_you_ever_get_this_feeling 229717 are big boobs for a girl to have important to a guy??? anabelle Tue, 13 May 2008 14:45:28 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/big_boobs_or_no_big_boobs 229716 ok im 13 and im going through my teen years and I dont know whats wrong with me cause soemtimes I can be really happy and sometiems I feel like something is missing and I dont make friends easily also I really liek these emo pictures but im not emo am I ??? what is happening to me??? summerhottie2424 Tue, 13 May 2008 14:34:07 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/help_me_through_this_stage 229714 do you think two people should be seperated just becasue they have TWO COMPLETELY different religions and certain beleifs?? because for example my parents are doing to the impossible to break me and my boyfriend up for more than two years..tis been really hard to stay together..but should it be rite what their wanting to do? or should it not matter? anabelle Tue, 13 May 2008 14:31:18 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/stuck_between_two_worlds 229711 I am 18 and I am still a virgin but what I the perfect age I should have s** daisy97 Tue, 13 May 2008 14:24:54 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/wat_age_38505 229706 how can I stay clean after I shower..for when my boyfriend whats to go down on meeh?? if he gets back up from where he was at..does that mean there was something wrong already? anabelle Tue, 13 May 2008 14:19:35 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/eatin_out_a_girl 229700 okay so lets say that ima see my guy later on tonite...and I shower in hours of advance..how do I stay clean in case he wants to go down on me?? and what if he removes himself from down there like a bit after he does it, does that mean that theres something wrong already? fau Tue, 13 May 2008 13:56:31 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/when_a_guy_is_going_to_go_down_on 229693 I really liked to be spanked during s*x but is that normal? Almost all the guys I have slept with spanked me but does everyone do it!? I love it personally. badgirl17 Tue, 13 May 2008 13:40:44 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/spanking_during_s_x_normal 229690 Okay so nobody answered me before and ima ask for like the third time! Lol..lapdance or striptease? I want to find a different way to 'amuse' or entertain my boyfriend...how can I do so or which one should I do? anabelle Tue, 13 May 2008 13:32:28 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/spicy_anyone 229689 What do you think ? Is it sexy? Is it ugly? Give me your thoughts. la16love Tue, 13 May 2008 13:28:59 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/guys_what_do_you_think_about_girls 229685 Well. I like this girl in mii school and I had asked if she would ever go out with me and she said no. But she keeps flirting with me. I have a girlfriend but she doesnt know. And she doesnt know how I feel bout her. Im confused. Does she like me or not??? Any other ways to tell if someone likes u??? And by the way. Im a girl and im bi. funadvice Tue, 13 May 2008 13:10:31 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/does_she_like_me_1729 229681 What would you do if your ex kept on bringing up the time that you called him your ex name do you think my exboyfriend still likes me crawforddestiny Tue, 13 May 2008 12:43:42 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/my_ex_boyfriend_1729 229673 whats the easiest way to break up with someone you know likes you but you just don't like anymore? love____you Tue, 13 May 2008 12:40:21 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/break_up_1336 229672 what to do about a porn addiction and wanting to have sex all of the time? fau Tue, 13 May 2008 12:34:53 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/help_229670 229670 I'm still a virgin, and I don't want to have sex ANY TIME SOON! but, I want to know why it's so bad to have a baby at 13, 14, 15? I mean, it's my choice right? Why should I save sex for marriage? I don't know if I even want to get married.! Honeslty, I kindof want a baby- of my own. NOW! ahh. cheerchicky08 Tue, 13 May 2008 11:56:00 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/i_m_13 229666 Suggestions: I want to drive him crazy for me. "no sex" how do I accomplish this? how do I flirt with him without being obious to him? I want him to wonder what I am doing, etc when we are not together. I want him to see me and want me really bad. We have dated in the past and we hang around each other a lot and talk on the phone constantly . He doesn't stop calling me. he has always said he is looking for a friend. he is not ready for a relationship. he is in process of his divorce. What do you suggest? boucegirl71 Tue, 13 May 2008 11:05:33 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/how_do_i_drive_him_wild_for_me 229660 I had told my boyfriend that he dont last long and is boring I was jokeing and he knew it then that same nigh6t he went for a bout 20 minutes longer but I would like to know if any one has any crazy crazy night that was fun please give me advise on how I could spice things up also we both like being on bottem how do I get it so im on bottem most of the time and one more question how do I tell him I like it rougph with out saying any thing ? brittsillyx3 Tue, 13 May 2008 10:40:34 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/better_sex_7407 229657 Is sex as important as love and trust? mohdozy Tue, 13 May 2008 09:51:23 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/imp_of_sex 229653 Ladies do you like you're man Cocky and Confident. or do you perfer them Shy and Nice? I like to stick to Cocky and Confident but it doesnt always work what do I do!? metalheaddude Tue, 13 May 2008 08:32:26 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/what_do_you_women_perfer 229636 This is the other related question to the one I asked a few days ago the one that said this guy is tellin everybody im pregnent. I mean this just hit me an I dont know what to do. What if I am what do I do. Should I get back together with him. Because if I am which I don't know if I am or not because I havent had my period an it is time for me to have it. Should I get back with him since it would be his if I am pregnent. How I know it would be his is because he is the only one I have been with besides this guy names brandon in like febuary with was like for mouths ago an I have had a few periods since then. So I know it would be his if I am. I mean I need some advice should I get back with him. I dont even know how to raise a baby im only 15 what do I do even if I wanted an abortion my mom wouldnt let me get it . Which I dont believe in abortions I would never have on. I woulld put it up for adoption before I had an abortion that is just so wrong to kill a baby. Im just so confused an dont know what to do I need some major help because I don't know how to raise a baby if I am . Someone please help!!! angelbaby15 Tue, 13 May 2008 06:58:36 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/what_if_i_am 229629 How do you know when a guy really likes you or if he just want to get in your pants? I recently been seeing this guy and I like him a lot and he claims to like me too. But lately he's been sending me txt messages about wanting us to have sex and its only been 2 weeks since we started dating. munchie Tue, 13 May 2008 05:33:38 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/love_or_infatuation 229624 I heard if you eat lots of fruits that it will make the smell lessen, and taste a bit better. is that true? :D eroxxj Tue, 13 May 2008 04:27:52 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/vagina_smell_and_taste 229621 My crush eats in the upper commons where I eat. So one day I caught my crush smiling and he staring at me like he liked me. This has been going on since he found out I like him. Since last year when I was in 8th grade Whenever he is wit his girlfriend he would always look at me. One time I was cryin cause I was sad to see him wit his girlfriend he looked all sad and it looked like he wanted to see what was wrong wit me. The day after that I was at my locker, him & his girlfriend happened to stop right where my locker was and they were kissin and I looked mad . He was like starin at me, then his girlfriend hit him and she said not to look at me,so pretty much she caught him looking at me. But I slammed my locker shut so much I kinda broke it. He looked at me like "wow shes jealous" He also looks at me so he can make me jealous but I ignore him all the time, it doesnt seem to help All of his friends look at me like they are keepin an eye on me for my crush. Like today his friend kept on looking back at me and then at my crush. And then he told chris something bout me. Like all of his friends look at me like their happy. Last year I know he was talkin bout me cause he pointed at me. Then he turned away, then all of his friends were looking at me. He teased me last year, but now hes like mean to me, its weird, He would tell me to shut up, then he called me a b cause he was yellin at me so I yelled at him back. Its like me and him get along when were fightin My crush and I always look into my eyes when we walk by each other. I think we have a connection. Like when I was walkin upstairs I was hopin chris would be comin down the stairs. And he exactly did. It was considence,. Whenever we would walk past each other we would always look at each other. See im stuck I don't know what to do. I think he like me. I just need advice. Sorry I wrote so long What do you think I should do. chicabonita Mon, 12 May 2008 22:14:33 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/does_he_like_me_348 229614 Okay so I like this boy, yes I have like 3 quesitons. But he told my friend he kind of likes me, and a few other girls, How can I be the one who he goes for? nickieh Mon, 12 May 2008 21:35:54 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/help_help_help_4902 229612 what happened to being subtle? now you cant tell if a guy like you or not! its even normal to hold their hand and snuggle! I mean it is nice to be really close, but its wierd. hahaha. im not really complaining. you can even kiss them if you want. and no it is not like having friends with benefits, its completly different. curly_que Mon, 12 May 2008 21:19:25 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/how_come_guys_are_so_flirtacious 229611 im just like lonely. im 17 and have never been asked out or kissed or even told I was cute. I am pretty. im not like ugly at all. people, meaning other girls, im a girl btw, tell me im beautiful. I am in good shape. I have a nice body. I have blond curly hair. brown eyes. im nice, humble, musical. im a little on the short side, lol. im really funny and a great friend. but how can I be beautiful if noone has taken any interest in me? I am pretty confident, but sometimes it gets to me. people would be shocked if they knew I dont think I am pretty. if I am so worthy, then why am I the only one alone!?!? I just wish I knew what was wrong with me. I want a relationship. someone who likes me. oh and im really shy with guys. peoeple dont know im shy because im outgoing, but I have never talked to a guy other than friendship and that stuff. example, I could never ask one out. see, I did an experiment during spring break. there was a cute guy and he was alone and I thought I should go talk to him. test my skills, but I couldnt do it, it was too hard! I have to break out of my shell! curly_que Mon, 12 May 2008 21:04:53 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/how_come_guys_aren_t_interested_in 229609 My cousin Ashley (13) has this chance of dieing... Her brain may have been punctured, I donno by what yet, so She could die... I saw her in the Hospital, and it almost made me cry... What should I do with her picture? Seeing them makes me remind myself of her in the hospital but I don't want to get rid of them because then I have nothin left of her... Which should I do? metal Mon, 12 May 2008 20:57:12 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/what_should_i_do_with_the_pictures 229608 How do I get back at my ex who cheated on me and drinks and smokes??? penny_101 Mon, 12 May 2008 20:11:51 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/hahahhhahah 229602 Look today in class I dropped my folder and I asked him to pick it up and I pushed it and I went to pick it up he pushed it again and I asked him to pick it up and I went to reach for it we both went down at the same when I saw him going down I raised up and then he threw it in my face. That's not flirting is it? What does that mean? ladeidre14 Mon, 12 May 2008 19:47:40 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/what_should_i_do_666 229594 My ex and I are considering getting back together. we broke up not to long ago, but we arent ready to give up. Well, in the meantime (it's only been 2 weeks) I've slept with a good friend of mine from work. I wish I could say it was just once and I could just ignore it, but it wasnt. I think 4 or 5 times... I still want to be friends with this guy and I just know that if my ex and I get back together, he wont want me hanging out with him at all. So would it be better to not tell him? cheshirecat25 Mon, 12 May 2008 18:59:29 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/should_i_tell_him_i_slept_with_another 229589 on facebook I have a note posted, and its a poem, the boy I like replied too it saying "This maybe a little corny, but im going for it anyways" and sent me the link to the song Beautiful Soul by Jesse McCartney, what did he mean by that? fau Mon, 12 May 2008 18:59:23 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/what_does_he_mean_137604 229585 I really really like a boy and I get the odd vibe he likes me, But only sometimes. Like he'll flirt and stuff, especially when his ex isn't around, And I want to just tell him just incase there is that chance, but im worried I'll get hurt Because last time I did this I got shot down and rejected and it really hurt, Whats your advice? fau Mon, 12 May 2008 18:43:55 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/should_i_go_for_it_89327 229571 my best most reliable friend whos a boy has recently told me his deepest most darkest secret (he has been having sex since he was 6!!!) full intercorse! so it kinda made me uncomforatable thinking that my friend is some kind of perv. o well I didnt let it bother me to much until he called me up one day and said he was going crazy with boners he needed to have sex with me. well im a virgin. im not having sex im too young (13) so he got pissed and now we are getting in a lot of fights latley. I wish he had never told me. and when we do get along he wants to have sex again! WHAT DO I DO PLEASE HELP! bbbabee Mon, 12 May 2008 18:38:02 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/sex_too_far 229569