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Wut do i do? bad break up

Asked by l3al3yiloveu over 3 years ago, 4 answers.

ok well me and my boyfriend just broke up!! I love him with everything I have and he is in love with me too still but the big problem is my mom doesnt like him! so he doesnt want to be with me =[ but he still yet loves me!

how do I get my mom to like...

him.
im so depressed I cant eat I cant sleep I cant do anything I have mono right now and then on top of it im so stressed out and on my period and I don't know im bleeding a lot because im stressed and ugh wut do I do?? please help =/

kk thanks =]

Answered by karla on Nov 03, 2006, 06:55PM
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My mom doesn't like my boyfriend either, but who cares? He's going out with you, not your mom. Does she really have a good reason not to like him? If she's like my mom she doesn't. Don't let your mom get in your way of being happy together.

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Answered by brighteyez on Oct 31, 2006, 03:07PM
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If she dislikes him, there must be a reason. The best thing to do is ask what the problem is. It might end up being very irrelevant. Your mom loves you very much and probably has your best interest at heart, but you need to let her know that she's not dating him, you are! Now if he's a drug dealor or something, it would be in YOUR best interest to break up with him, never mind your mom. However, if she's just stereo-typing him because of the way he looks, dresses, his hobbies etc, then she needs to back off. You should try and get them to spend some time together, so she'll get to know the real him, who know's maybe she'll end up liking him very much. That's what happened with a friend of mine! You ultimately have to do what your mother says, but you should do everything in your power to make them reconcile eachother. If she still refuses to accept him, don't completely forget about him. Wait until you're older and out of your mom's house, then, if you really love him, work things out. Your mother may have power over you now, but not when you're over 18.

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Me Answered by locoluna on Oct 31, 2006, 04:27PM
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Oh my you sound exactly like me! Been thru very similar things. The first thing you need to do is stop putting yourself thru so much stress, i no its hard cos i went thru it to, i was fainting cos i couldnt sleep or eat and so on, so please keeps your energy levels up esp if you have your periods otherwise your blood pressure will drop and you'll be fainting everywhere. Drink lots of fluids to.
Next, be grateful that you no your bf still loves you. Its not his fault he left, he feels obligated to leave. My mum hated my last bf to, but she had good reason, becos he treat me like crap! This prob isnt the case here becos he sounds like a genuine guy, what you need to do now is go to your mum and talk to her. Get her to speak to you like a human being and not a 5 year old and get her to explain to you why she dislikes your bf. Tell her she has hurt you becos now you have lost the one you love becos of her, tell her that if she explains why she doesnt like him maybe he can work on it or you all can sit down and come up with some rules to make your mum feel more comfortable. It is her house so you have to respect her rules unfortunetly. My biggest concern here is why your bf up and left, i no you say its becos of your mum but there are ways to avoid that, you can go see him at his house and go out to places while you work on understanding your mum better, im just concerned at why he gave up and left so soon without trying to make it work. Just be careful with that. If you need anymore advice you no where to find me happy keep smiling tho and keep your chin up everything happens for a reason.

Answered by liluxo on Oct 31, 2006, 04:46PM
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Hey. Well first of all, if you're extremely stressed physically then it's going to make everything else suck about ten times more. So- make sure you're following everything you're supposed to do for mono (get LOTS of sleep!!!) and drink a lot of water. I know it's probably hard with mono, but exercising during your period can help make it have less of an impact on you, just something to consider. Now onto what you asked about- your boyfriend.
Your mom has her reasons for not liking him, and she's much more likely to tell you those reasons if you ask her CALMLY and maturely about what they are. Even if you think she's being a total idiot, you need to show her you're mature enough to make judgements about the people you hang out with. Listen to her and let her finish talking before you start, and it might be better to say why YOU like him rather than just dismiss or disprove all the things your mother says. You can't make your mom like him, but you can try to get her to see your side. She's trying to look out for you. If she still doesn't budge, there may not be much you can do. Good luck!

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