Wish me luck people !!

Well people wish me luck I spoke to my ex (love of my life) today for the first time in a month, we've been broken up for 2 months and I've learned a lot about love, relationships what I should've, could've done to treat a woman the way there suppose to be treated.

I feel im ready to let her know how I feel about her, she's been with a rebound guy for the past month and half which really hurted but was expected, where I've taken a different road, I didn't want to get a rebound girl as I would not have been comfortable with someone else.

About 2 nights ago I had the chance to sleep with another woman and I almost went threw it but I decided not to. I still feel everything for my ex and even though we have been broken up I still can't get myself to sleep with someone else.

Im going to talk to her face to face this week and let her know what I've learned and how I feel.

If you girls know of some things you would have liked to here from your ex boyfriend's that would make your hearts melt I would appreciate any advice.

I suggest you tell her how you truely feel, but don't tell her what she wants to hear just to flatter her.I think it's shows maturity when you didn't sleep with a girl just because you could. I don't know why you and your ex broke up, but don't expect her to just stop what she has now and run to you. You might need to prove that she can trust you, and that takes time. Just remember you can say all the sweetest and meaningful things to a girl, but they don't hold true value unless they are put into action!

she said it the best ^
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I plan on telling her what I've learned about myself and her and to tell her only the truth, I don't just want to woo her over. She deserves the truth and I intend to give it to her.

We broke up cause our reltaionship went threw stale mate and I wasn't sure if I wanted to be with her, I felt I had to get out there and meet as many woman as possible to make sure that she's the one.

Now that I've had my time to think about it I came to the conclusion that it doesn't really matter how many woman I sleep with none of them are her.
She's the only one I want to sleep with and be with, it's taken 2 months but I know she's the one for me and that I want to spend my life with her....

I just needed a woman's perspective on what not to say....
Thanks Lady's

Wow. Well I'm happy that you are going to talk to her FACE TO FACE about how you feel. that will give you a lot of brownie points. I don't know her, so I wouldn't really know what she would like to hear. You don't want to seem like you are just completely running back to her though. Girls too like a little hard to get. So you might just want to tell her, like you said, how you feel about her. But include being casual friends is always good with you too. But if you do just tell her how you feel and she takes it well, you shouldn't expect her to just drop her current 'rebound' guy. Unless you are positive she still has the same feelings for you. I wish you the best of luck with your ex!

Hey, I think that you should just tell her how you feel, only if you feel like getting in that same relationship. Which I am sure you are. Just speak what is in your heart and tell how you really feel.