Winning my girlfriend back

My girlfriend broke up with me and found someone else? How to get her back? we dated for almost 3 years, we actually broke up like two or three times before. Anyway everything went well before christmas of 06. during the the next week I havent heard from...

her... Then when the holidays was over we end up back to school. her and our friends were laughing at me you know we all was having a good time making it seem like everything is ok. until the end of school she gave me a letter. I pretty much have a limit on this site so I can't say much about it. Anyway it's been a month and found out she has a new boyfriend that's in the army. I may think their relationship might have some difficulties because he's in the army. I just want her back. You may say move on or whatever but there are times that we have to figure many ways to help! so please.
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later!!!

Ok bud I know exactley what your going threw as I recently broke up with my girlfriend after 3 and half years, also over christmas...these holiday's really sucked

Anyway this is what I did and what i've been going threw, I know you miss her and wish you could be with her , hold her , hug her just do anything with her but nothing is going to work now on getting her back you have to realize that.

You guys were together for 3 years and that means that your guys really loved eachother and probabley spoke about getting married.
You have to let her breath and let her realize what she's missing out on and that the grass isn't greener on the other side.

Don't talk to her, don't sms her do not do any form of communication towards her for atleast 2 months. I know it's hard and I know you don't want to but if you keep on phoning her and sms'ing her your only pushing her away.

if she's anything like my girlfriend she's probabley looking for some answers, she also got a rebound guy and they are dating now aswell but you must understand you are at the back of her head always, you don't shake off 3 years in a month I promise you that.

Let her do what she wants to do and if you feel you haven't said everything you wanted to her, write a letter and drop it off but don't see her.
The heart misses what it doesn't see or hear so let her miss you and let her realize just what you guys meant.

Good things come to those who wait , so wait it out my friend enjoy your new freedom (I know there's no woman that compare) but woman are good for your ego and will make you feel better about yourself.

if you guys were meant for eachother you will get back together and if you do you will probabley get married so, get everything out your system while you still can enjoy other woman and being single cause once that ring is on it's over bud.

Make the best of your new freedom and if she notices just how much fun and how good your doing she might want to be part of your life again.

Good Luck
and let me know

Man, thats some sound advice. I love the end...If its meant to be, you guys will end up together, and will most likely get married. So live it up while you can. BRILLIANT!!!! Genius.

you did spell 'through wrong though. lol Thanks man

Well, i don't really know about that advice. It sounds great and all but what if you never win her back and you die miserable. Then what? I'm going through something very similar and i'm not sure what to do. I think i'm a great guy but she just gives me lot of crap. All the same i love her and we had been together for 4 years before she broke up with me last week. I did cheat on her 2 years ago but we sort of worked things out ( well, maybe not completely as she still brought it up in every argument). Anyway i want to marry this girl and i'm not sure things are going to head in that direction. Anybody know the ultimate way to win an ex-girlfriend back.

yea im going through a really shitty time been with my g/f for 7 years an on saturday she txt me saying shes had a nuff . ivebeen told she has got some one else . I feel like diein . but really want her back . I no she worryed about me because she has told my step dad . I've spoken to her once on the phone but she was shitty an said she dont want me to call her or meet up with her . so now what do I do ... HELP SOMEONE PLEASE ... mark

hey well me and my ex went out for almost 3 years. And he broke up with me 3 months ago. It rellly hurt. It still does more hen ever. Look all I know is that things happen for a reason..and if you trully loved her you will never forget her. If she really loved you she has not forgotten you. And even if she moved on im sure she still thinks about you. OF course if it was true love. I think that if you and her dont end p together that someone beter will come along. It's what keeps me going. But for now..if you want to win her back the best thing you can do is show her you trully do love her. Girls tend to be insecure and most of us are looking for something real. Show her your willing to love her unconditionally and that you have sooo much love to give. Be there for her when shes upset. For now..maybe try just being her friend. Be there for her..tell her your there and always lets her know shes special to you. When shes around her girlfriends pay attention m,ore to her and smile to her when you see her. Just prove to her that your there..with arms wide open..and unconditional love that she knows she wont be able to walk away from.

method tried and proven successful...warning it`s not easy and it`s not pretty...basically you have to shift the pressure on the new guy, you do so by talking to her and finding his weaknesses/things she is not happy about and keep on discussing them with her...pretty soon she will mention them to the new guy when they are together or test him...if he insicure enough he will make his situation worse by being jealous/complaining creating doubts into her...if you are lucky she will drop him and come back...all of this will likely take 2-3 months...not a happy time...this will likely make things rough for other people so fair warning.