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Okay so one night I was home alone and my brother told me that his friend was coming over but he never told me a time so I got in the shower and then when I got out of the shower I remembered that I forgot a towel. I had to get to the closet and then to my room. I didnt worry because I thought I was the only one in the house but when I went for the closet I ran into my brothers 17 year old friend and he saw me completely naked. Now he wont stop watching me get dressed. Why wont he stop watching me?
as your only 15 if hes watching you (and thats really strange he must have a screw loose or summet) hes watching an underage girl, therefor hes breaking the law and creeping you out at the same time. even if I've worked your age out wrong its still wrong and very worrying..
hes got like a serial killer thing going on stalking his prey.. ok maybe a lil OTT but what if im not?
you have a few options:
tell your brother that his mate keeps staring at you as your getting dressed (if hes staring in through a window then wouldnt that be a type of harassment?)
tell your parents
go to the police (id take this option cus I 100% guarantee you he wont watch you again)
it is a form of sharing. unintentionally on your part but he thinks somehow he has earned a free pass. In his mind you two are now connected in a way. he has seen something you wanted to keep private. Now he desires to do more than see and since he has already broke down the wall of embarrasment he wants you to feel comfortable with him. Just make sure he knows it was accidental and he should not expect anything more. Your brother and father will handle the rest if they respect you.
How about you close your door!!! Dont forget to bring a towel with you when you shower. You knew he was coming over, so you decide to go streaking around the house??? Come on now.
Well his hormones are still crazy and he saw a girls tits. He's probably like woa. Just have your bro talk to him. you know guy to guy. Tell him to back off.
It's difficult to deal with as a guy. It's a primal instinct. All I can tell ya to do is get a restraining order so he won't be near you if it's that bad.
Because he is intrigued the best way to handle it is to tell him to back down. If it get's too far out of hand then have the police talk to him.
how can he watch u?does he actually open yur door and watch when yur in yur room dressing?if he does just tell yur dad to bar him frm yur house
well like I have told him that but he wont stop and I mean im fine with my body and all its more along the lines of the staring
Would you stop. I mean come in he just saw his friends sister NAKED! If you were a 17 year old guy what would you do?
He will surely stop if you dont give him any chances!!! You need to change in the way you think! think it nicely
ok so I have just talked to him and he told me that he didnt mean to creep me out but he just really likes me
urghhh ! against the law illegal ! TELL YOUR MUM BROTHER AND THE POLICE ! IT COULD BE A SORT OF ABUSE
no I thought I had a towel and I didnt think anyone was in the house but me and I do close my door
yeah well he is at my house now so I will talk to him and I will see what happens