Why should I go down on you ?

I love my boy friend an d he loves me too he has already eaten my pussy but I am afraid to return the favor. I just cant see my self doing it. If you have done this or if you havent can you tell me how you feelm about the whole situation

ok chick listen I have done this before ok it's not that bad I take it it will be your first time doin it and I will admit iw as scared 2 but it wasn't that bad they guy said I done a really good Job so don't be scared ok just relax before you do it it's like LICKIN and SUCKIN on a Sucker 4 real it is all you have to do is lick and suck lick and suck here's how I done it first I lick around it a couple of times then stick it and my mouth then just repeat that's all you have to do if you have bad reflex's then don't deep throut cause you might through up or sumthing but if not then deep throut girl good look!!!!!

I think it would be a fine idea IF you know where his pen*s has been lately? Doing what to whom? Because you can get two serious diseases from blow-jobs without a condom. And oh don't we know, guys don't like condoms.

I have a good guy friend who loved blow jobs. And guys like to talk so he always had the info on who was blowing and who wouldn't. And he went after the ones who did, making them feel oh so popular.

He's HIV positive now. One of his little cute things was infected. He doesn't know if it's from giving of getting because he pretty much did both. But he's taking loads and loads of medicine now to keep his T cells down and his red count up. Oh, and he only gave a partial list of who he'd done and been done by. Although through the grapevine, he sent the word out. Some of those oh so popular girls, are poison now. And a couple of them are probably infected with HIV. It'll sure kill any plans you might have for after middle or high school.

But go ahead, if you want to get infected by some casual encounter. Or even if you LOVE your boyfriend. How many romances around you do you see last? But if it's worth your life, go ahead. But don't make any long term plans

I think your advice about STD and HIV are very important but I am a bit worried about you being a bit negative towards sex and sexual awareness. Though I agree that poeple should be informed and honest about their sexual habits, I don't agree that poeple should stop themselves from discovering the pleasures of sex because they have been told to be afraid and untrusting. Scaring people isn't a way to help them learn and develop good habits, it alway leads to guilt and self denial. Please try to be sensitive to peoples first time experiences and concentrate on educating them about the pros and cons in a way that does not reflect such a negative attitude.

So it's ok for him to lick your pussy but you cant return the favor? It's perfectly normal, safe And curteous to suck his di*k. Don't get the misconception that it's nasty and it's wrong. If he has the courage to do you, you should brave up and at least try to do him. Now, I also want to stress that you just don't do it to anybody who wants it, however if you all are in a good committed relationship and you like to see him be pleasured, that would definately be a way. What's the difference from doing that and kissing him? Nothing really, it's just a phobia that you have that most women have and it's really unnecessary. Have fun and don't stress too much on giving oral sex.

in reply to your situation, I have gone down on a couple of my bfs. it was strange at first but it is all trial and error, you have to be able to communicate with your partner and ask him what works best for him (and you too!) after you feel more comfortable with it, you can experiment and find new ways to make it fun and interesting, but it will take a little time and getting used to.