Why is this happening ..ladies with babies answer pls!!

Okay when I was about 11 1/2 weeks pregnant doctor told me I had a miscarriage cause he couldnt see the baby I was so upset cause they didnt check for a heartbeat or nothing. they said maybe I lost it at 2 or three weeks cause for some odd reason I...

didnt have any cramping or bleeding...I was like what if I lost it then my body shouldnt have kept on changing right...but the dumb asses couldnt explain why my body was still changing oh yeah and they said my blood test came out negative and my urine was positive but since my blood was neg. Then there is no way im pregnant ..so I went home thinking I lost the baby...so many mixed emotions...okay like 3 1/2 weeks later when I would be like 14 1/2 weeks I started to get lil dots of white and clear liquid come out of my breast and I was like holy crap and I looked it up and they said it would be my beast getting ready to develop milk some woman leak a lil and some dont I know that..but I was thinking hey they said I wasnt pregnant..so forget it I left it alone well this continue for a whole month everytime I would squeeze it I would get lil dots of the stuff. Okay its been a lil while now and if im pregnant I should be 20 weeks now and around like 18 to 19 weeks I started to feel like lil popping in my stomach it felt like pop corn popping you know..and now officially I cant lay on my stomach no more I get so nauesated if I do and I have gained like 10 pounds since the beginning...everyone still says it looks like im getting bigger and pregnant..oh yeah I still havent had a damn period...im scared to go to the doctor but I know I have to...

Go to a different doctor...if you're still having symptoms and your body is progressing with a pregnancy then you need to know now.

Do a pregnancy test..

Go get an ultrasound from a different doctor. If you HAVE lost the baby, women's bodies sometimes go through a false postpartum period, where you have colostrum, or even on occasion, some women fully lactate. If you had lost the baby that early on, it is probably unlikely, but not impossible.
Take a pregnancy test again and talk to an older female with kids that you trust (Mom, Aunt, friend's mom) they're great for guidance. But definitely go to a different doctor and go as soon as possible so you can get adequate care. If you're not already taking prenatals, you need to start just on the off chance that you're pregnant.

Sometimes I wonder how some doctors get into their profession. Doctors need to fully check but most of them are so effin' lazy it's half the reason why people die these days. Anyway, I'm sorry for your loss if he was correct, but go to a different doctor, preferably a female gyno or something. Female gyno's usually care more than a male doctor, No offense and I'm not trying to be sexist...but in my mom's experience and my personal experience it's true. Good luck, and check as soon as possible..it could be something much worse! or could be nothing at all, but if the baby IS still in there...you could save it! If not, I'm still sorry about all this stresss =(