My husbands lil sister doesnt like me for somereason she is 12 she wants us to get divorced but why its like I cant speak to him when she is round I dont have her in my good books either as she punched me in stomach am scared I have losted the baby I dont want to tell my husband as he might go mad what could I do as my stomach feels different am bleeding like mad too please help
Omg...sorry but you have to tell your husband. This is outrageous and to think that you may have lost your baby cause she punched you in the stomach!!! you have to sit w/your husband and explain all of it. It will only get worse. Why are you hiding it and protecting her? your baby and your relationship is much more important than suffering mentally and emotionally and phsycially. your husband who loves you and would obviously want everyone to get along will understand. Why should he blame you for anything? Be strong. This is your man. This is your baby. Enough is enough. you and your husband and his sister could all go out to dinner and talk over these issues. Something is not right w/this 12 yr old and she does need to be put in her place and understand that the relationship between you and your husband is one thing. And the relationship between your husband and her is another and that its not going to change. Each person should b respected and unless you want to continue to have problems, you have to do this. Stand up for urself and protect urself. Thats more important than anything.
It sounds like she may be jealous of you. You have taken her brother's attention away from her onto you.
You might try sitting down, alone, with her and explaining to her that you love him just like she does and that you aren't trying to take him away from her but just want to share him with her.
You might try explaining to her that she hasn't lost her brother but, in essence, has gained a big sister. Explain to her that you are there for her if she wants to talk and that you hope that she and you can learn to be friends.
If you think you are having medical problems, don't fool around. Get in to see a doctor. You might be harming yourself and/or your baby by delaying.
I'm 12 and I can tell you whats wrong with your little sis. She is probaly not geting the same amount of afection or time her brother use to give her. You might want to set like a saterday afternoon or somthing like that aside and let your husband and little sis have some one on one time for a while then start hanging with them for 30 mins then an 1:00 and work the time you all spend time together up untill she doesn't dispize you so much...She will probaly never realy like you too much but you have to show her that you not going to take her big brother away from her.
I hope I helped you.
P.S
Glad the kid is ok
go to the doctor and don't tell your husband just tell one of your friends to take you and foe his lil sister not to be smart or nothin and please forgive me I how punch that trick in the dam* face and stomach
I would get your a** to the doctor and findout if the baby is ok. She might not like you because she thinks you r taking her brother away
Um go to the doctors.. and she probablydoesnt like you because she feels as if your intruding in on her and her bros relationship.
Go to the doctor. And she's probably jealous because she feels her brother is being taken away from her.
my husband did a pregnancy test on me and I havent lost it but thee baby is stressed
Get medical attention asap !!
