Why guys do this?

He was a friend but lately over the summer things have been changing. Now I don't know if it has to do with him getting ready to go off to college or what but
-I asked him if we were still hanging out, he said "maybe later if I feel like it"
-Couple of days later he asked if I would hang out with him late at night (1 am) of course I said no to late
-Then he asks if I would cuddle with him
- Days pass, he talks to me but says he doesn't want to be friends because I get mad to much
-I fight to keep friendship so he asked what I would do if I saw him in the shower. Didn't give him a good answer so he said we can't be friends
- I call week later to apologize about getting 'mad' and he says were cool and we can be friends again
- I told him I wasn't sure if we should be friends again because I feel like I cause to much drama, so he just says "ok." I told him "bye" and he said "goodbye fallen."

I'm so confused because we were cool just being friends and he already has chick with friends with benifits. I don't understand why he is doing this? please help

To me, he doesn't seem like a good friend. This guy seems like an absolute horndog who's in it for sex. When he asks you to do things you may consider awkward and uncomfortable with him, (cuddling, picturing him in the shower), of course you're takened back and can't find something to say that he wants to hear and he seems as if he expects you to say "yes" to all of his favors. It's good you're not giving in because if you did, he would unfortuantly attempt to use you whenever he needed you for HIS favors, which is disrespectful and selfish of him.

I had a friend that acted the exact same way. He isn't a true friend he doesn't think about what you want he only thinks about himself. Especially because you didn't give him a good answer to if you saw him in a shower so you couldn't be friends anymore? really that doesn't make any sense. Don't feel like you cause too much drama because it's not you it's his problems. I know how you feel because I had a friend that would only want to hang out when it was convient for him and do things his way. You don't need someone like that.

I agree with modernwinterbreeze. Hes not looking for a relationship, just some fun. I wouldnt consider someone like that a friend. He wants another "friend with benefits".

well here's a different way to look at it... sounds like to me he's not just looking for a frienship anymore. and just maybe he thinks that you'll say we're "too good of friends" to be in a relationship, so perhaps he's just distancing himself from you, so he can get closer to you in the long run? I mean I'm not by any means an expert on relationships, but that's what it sounds like to me.
Tell me how many people have you turned down cause you were "better off friends"? I just don't think the arrogant views from a couple woman should be the jury and mallet crashing down to extinct a "relationship" that you've obviously cared about to keep around, and I wouldn't take the advice of myself or a few strangers here about this either, I'd talk to someone close to you and him if possible. Cause it just don't make sense to me.