Why dosent she like it

this isnt a big deal but id like to hear ppls opinion on the subjet.
recently my girlfriend and I have become relly close, we had sex for the first
time last week ( in a romatic forin country no less). my query is this,
were in our teens and weve done...

just about everything but any time I
finger her or eat her out she tells me to stop after a few minutes. I feel
greedy reciving stuff but not being allowed to do stuff to make her
orgasim. maby im paranoid but I feel like a selfish boyfriend if she gives
me head and she wont let me return the favor. if you know why she feels this
way (girls can answer this) or how I can make her cum without her stoping
me id like o know because I feel really selfih only reciving and not giving.
thanx for answering if you do !
I've posted this before but didnt get a clar answer, and so everones clar I've never made here cum as she stops me before I get a chance every time

well umm it is sord-of a big deal to her. maybe she wont tell you this but if you are really close to her friends ask them if they know anything! or maybe ask her. maybe she feels uncomfortable when ure eating her out, or fingering her. alot of girls are usually embarrassed to hsve a guy go down on them but ask her why she doesnt want you too. hopefully its not that she doesnt like it its that she feels shy about it anyways good luck!

If she is a virgin then it may feel weird to her ask her what she likes while you are doing it she may be shy and not able to relax talk to her

Well maybe it is too much for her. I often times have to stop my fiance when he goes down on me because it is just too much. Tell her to tell you what she wants. Maybe you just need to switch things up. Talk to her, communication is key.

It would help if I knew how she was telling you to stop, but I'm going to assume she's just telling you in a normal voice to stop, instead of a pleasurable-cant-take-it-anymore stop. Maybe she's not enjoying it because it doesnt feel good, aka boring. And her saying stop is her saying give up, i have better things to do with my time. but u say a few minutes is a few like 3 minutes? Because if it is then my theory of it being boring is probably wrong. But after 10 minutes...maybe she's just not getting pleasurable, or maybe your sucking too hard and it hurts, or whatever....I'm mean she lets you start...maybe she's giving you a chance to please her. If she was shy about the whole thing, do you think she would just stop it from the gitgo?! I agree with the other comment.....COMMUNICATE!

ask her whats wrong and explain to her that you want to return the favor and not be greedy