Why don't I feel good about myself?

I want to be able to think that im sexy,pretty and thin. I also want to be able to not be so shy. any advice on how I can accomplish any of these things?

ok...so...like my best friend in the world always says...NO WOMAN IS UGLY!
Every woman has SOMETHING that other women would love to have and drives men crazy. You don't have to be thin to be sexy...you have to feel sexy to be sexy, and wearing thongs or the tightest pants or a miniskirt or showing every part of your body is definitely NOT a way to do it, thats just being a wh*re, sexy for me is the kind of woman who has confidence in herself, who everywhere she stands, she always makes a statement and a great impression, who no matter what stands out in the crowd and most importantly who loves herself over what anybody else thinks, but you know a day in the spa or going to a beauty salon and getting a makeover wouldn't harm...but just remember if other people say something to you...just think

"If they had a life...then they'd stop talking about yours" PERIOD!

About being shy, its something normal, but just have some confidence in whatever you do, and when you fall, just have the courage to get back up and pursue what you want...cause it is proven that difficult things are most always not achieved the 1st time...

Hope this helped...Take Care!!!

None of us are perfect. We are all human. So be happy with your unique human features, and show off your best trait. We all have something that we're proud of - or at least reasonably OK with. You're sure to meet a guy who is fond of that sort of trait, and who is drawn to your smile.