Why doesn't he want sex?

Okay, I am so confused... guyz want sex, rite?? so, if a guy doesnt want sex.. wut could his reasons b?? someone fill me in... he says its bc he loves me, but our guy friend tells me that he thinks its a deeper reason why he doesnt want 2 have sex. so basically my ? is: why do some guyz want 2 not have sex?? Aren't guyz suppose 2 b like pushy about it?? C, every other guy that I know and have dated wants sex and is extrememly pushy about it. But my boyfriend is different. I am not upset that he isnt pushing for sex like many other guyz do, but im scared that there are other reasons that he doesnt want 2 tell me... if there were other reasons, wut could they possibly b?? I just dont understand

Hmmm, don't see this question often. Well it could be for religious reasons but if it was he probably would have told you so by now. Perhaps he's embarrassed about something or nervous (concerned about his size, a birth defect, over weight, third nipple, virgin and doesn't know what he's doing, not a virgin and has been told by a girl or two that he doesn't know what he's doing when it comes to sex, etc.). You're correct in assuming that most guys who are offered sex by there girlfriends for the first time (99%) will jump at the chance. Sit and talk. Try to get him to open up and elaborate about his reasons. The only way to know for sure is to talk about it.

I agree with Dark ... great advice Dark..

My fiance is the same way. I am the dominant one when it comes to sex. He loves sex and has assured me he loves having sex with me. He just doesn't always feel like having sex. But in your case it sounds like he might be holding off on sex for responsibility reasons.

Perhaps he's scared of getting you pregnant. Usually it's only the female that worried but guys can get pretty nervous about it too. Talk to him about birth control. Perhaps he isn't comfortable with a condom being the only protection.

I like it better in da dark

Im having the same issue with my boyfriend. I want sex all the time but now he tells me he doesnt feel the same way. He says he loves me to death and that he would died for me. He loves me in every way but not in a sexual way. I asked him if I wasnt pretty for me but thats not the case because Im a pretty woman with a great body, so I know its not that. After he tells me this and we both cry for hours about it. He has sex with me, I dont understand either. I also need help!!!

Im a guy and I am pretty pushy about sex. Any guy that doesnt want to have sex is usually self-conscious about there size, weight, experience, ect. Your b/f is most likley self-conscious or has low self-esteem. So just talk to him and and make sure he gets the message that you dont care about is size and experience but that you care more about who he is.

~Glad to help

Have any of your people considered for a moment that some of these guys might be GAY!!!??? Yes, SURPRISE, society forces gay men to think they are immoral or evil so they hide and live lies and fool themselves they are straight. This is the end result, a non-functioning boyfriend who is probably hooking up with guys on the side. He is a coward for hiding but also a victim of the ignorance of the society he lives in. As for girls, I really don't know where to start with you all, the last thing any of you want to deal with is your boyfriend being gay or bi. I can't tell you how many girls I have seen just stay in denial They think they can tell when a guy is gay, no you can't most of the time they just act like any other guy. There are just as many gay acting str8 guys as gay guys. So I would consider this before you go off about him being fat, ugly, impotent etc...

Umm it could be that or it could be that he just doesnt want sex... Shocked? Im one of them. its not that we dont love you its just we're not a machine. Hell for that matter I know women more horny than I've ever been. Sex is not everything, there are more important things in life.