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Why does this happen to me? a bit of a rant.

Gaara! Asked by sillist1s 2 months ago, 4 answers.

Why is it that I can't get boyfriend or something. I mean, come ooon! I'm 18 and never been kissed!
But anyway, why is it that only older guys approach me?? I mean they know I'm young, because I look younger in person (and I'm mature for my age, had to grow up cause my mom has medical problems and I've never had a dad), so why in the WORLD are they approaching me? I get sick and tired of this! I know someone out there is probably thinking, "She's single, wants a man, but isn't happy about this? Heck If I were her, I'd take what I can get..."
NOooo! Why am I attracting the wrong type of guys?? Why not someone close to my own age? I can never find one. Should I just go for someone that's like 20 years older than me? Throw in the towel and just do it? (I want people's opinion...I'm at wits end here! I can find NO ONE around my age!)

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us Answered by colethky on Jul 23, 2008, 07:29PM
| 1224 answers.

Maybe you're throwing off the commitment vibe and guys your own age don't want that. That's why the older guys are approaching you. You said that you are mature for your age...ever hear that guys mature slower than girls? If you don't want the whole marriage and kids thing right now, then maybe you should just chill out and let the guys see your fun side (your 18 year old side)

I love this movie! Answered by princexx on Jul 23, 2008, 07:40PM
| 498 answers.

just have fun and party every once and a while thoose are the kind of girls guys your age want...you dont have to drink or do drugs...but relax hang out with friends and just have a blast who cars about looking crazy guys love that! guys like a girl that can be one with the guys! keep that in mind and hope I helped.

Auma and Aput, my bearded dragons!! Answered by carjon011208 on Jul 23, 2008, 07:44PM
| 438 answers.

wow jonathan, that is obviously naruto, not avatar.

kitty Answered by ty on Jul 23, 2008, 11:46PM
| 5757 answers.

no no no, dont give up! I have this problem, I usually get creepy old men hitting on me (started when I was 14 for some unknown reason). Just give it some time. Maybe try different avenues of dating... But no, do you really want to be with some old guy? Who has absolutely no business hitting on an 18 year old in the first place!

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