Why does my mom have to be like this?

everytime my stupid fcking brother wants to borrow something and I say no my moms always like why cant he borrow it blah blah and then she goes on & on about how her and my dad have to drive us some where or buy us something and is like well maybe we dont like to do it..she yells about having to drive us somewhere.but yet when I mention getting my permit she's like well I dont know anymore..one minute she's pushing me to grow up and then saying something like that.and as for buying us stuff my brother and I have jobs..but the thing is is that I only get paid like 30 of 1oo..yea the rest does go to food but food I dont like and ughhh..

I understand that letting others borrow your things, especially brothers can be frustrating. I grew up with a brother myself. Maybe you can just look at it another way. What is more important here...your stuff or making your bother happy? As long as he is polite and respectful of you and your things, what is the problem? One day you may regret letting him borrow something. Let me tell you a story...

On August 30, 1996 my cousin spent the night with me. She was 6 and I was 11. She was always wanting to play with my stuff. It bugged me so much cause she couldn't keep her little hands off of it. Well, later that night we were getting ready for bed and she wanted to sleep with this stuffed monkey I had. I had enough of her messing with my stuff and I told her no. She cried for a little bit, then went to sleep. At the time I felt like I had finally won that she wouldn't mess with any of my stuff anymore. On September 3, 1996 she was skipping down the hallway at her school and passed out. She never woke back up. She is gone now and I never had the chance to say I was sorry for treating her like that. I relive that moment all the time now. If I would only have known what the future held for her, she could have had anything of mine and I wouldn't have cared.

All I'm trying to say is...cherish your brother and your time you spend with him. Your time together is priceless. Maybe he just looks up to you and your world is interesting to him. He obviously loves you. Try to play a game with him or share something of yours with him. When you do just sit back and watch his reaction. I'm sure you will both be happy.

Does he borrow you stuff? Just borrow him things and then if he damages it you can say no then but if you can help each other out ,why not

you sound just like my daughter did when she was 15 16 17 O & 18.. lol... Us mums, do love our children... yet it does take quite a while before we recognise that our children are not children anymore and that they are young woman/men, It takes a while before the penny drops.. forgive your mum im quite sure she means well..

he treats his stuff like crap so theres no way I like letting him borrowing my things.He already broke my dvd player

because she is your mom and all parents need their fun..lolz im joke...um honestly I dont know im an only child...but it sux trust me you should be glad you have someone there all the time..even if they are annoying...atleast your not alone about20hrs a day

Dont Forget The Not Allowed To Come To My House For A Month. Which Really Pisses Me Off. because She Doesnt Give You Money to Come her You Use Your Own Money And Half The Time I Pay For You And We Meet In Middleburg Or I Come And Get You And They Come And Pick You Up It's The Same Amount Of Gas And Money Anyway You Look At It. And If Gum Was My Brother I'd Say No because I Know How He Treats His Stuff. For Crying Out Loud the PS2 Dont Even Work Half The Mother Fcking Time... Ahhh. Now Im Getting Mad... I Love You Hun.