Why does my mom hate me?

Probably your mom is reacting to you. If you are a normal teen then you don’t talk to your mom about whats in your head, you grump about doing stuff, you are old enough to take some of the work load off her but you don’t and you answer back with mean words.

If this is the case she doesn’t hate you - she doesn’t like you at the moment.

If you want this to change think about doing something to please your mom.

Also I was the youngest child and my sister hated me because I got attention and she got to work. But she also got the best room and to go out while I could not. As sooitca said above, you are at different stages and your mom has different expectations of you.

Feeling hard done by makes things worse. Be thoughtful about what you say and do and nice to your sister and mother and your relationship with your family may change.

Everyone at some point in their life feels like this, it is normal.

If you do not tell anyone, you end up bottling it in and getting into more moods and grumpy and irritable.

It is hard to tell someone how you feel but you should speak to your mum about how you feel and what she should change.

Hopefully she will respect you for telling her.

I have 2 younger sisters too and I feel that they are the favourites in the family. As the older one we are expected to be more responsible and be able to ignore it. But its hard!!! I know!

Speak to your Mum, it is worth it.

Best of luck

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^ what she said…lol