Why does it hurt when we try to have sex

me and me lady Asked by bitburger63 9 months ago, 4 answers.

ok well me and my girlfriend have been going out for 3 years and well we have done everything we started having sex 2 years ago but we only had it once we both thought that we where to young and stupid fr doing it so we havent done it since we have tryd...

now many times but I cant seem to fit it in now. I mean I finger her and she says she like it it doesnt hurt but when we try to have sex I cant even get my head in befor it starts to hurt her. and I feel horrible after because I think I hurt her so w ehave had sex once icant fit my penis in her now we want to have sex but it hurts her to bad what do we do???

35 weeks pregnant (Yes, I have a sports-bra on) Answered by stephanief987 on Feb 14, 2009, 08:46AM
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I'm like that too (I'm 19 and lost my virginity when I was 14) and I'm still the same way.
What will help is having A LOT of foreplay and using lube, put lube on the condom so it's nice and wet when it goes in so it wont hurt. Also try different positions that are more comfortable for her, some positions still hurt for me sometimes.

Foreplay is the main thing here though, finger her for a while before having sex.

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in the fittin room :D Answered by cupcake5 on Feb 14, 2009, 12:46PM
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yea do lots of
foreplay
and tell her to relax, relax
a lot you know
her breathing her legs
her insides..try to sooth her and be very gentle
with her if she tells you to stop then stop
continue some other time
bc I was like that too
it hurts her bc her muscles get
tight bc shes' nervous of 'it going in'..but
its going to hurt her no matter what.
but after a good 6 times it'll
all be good!

:D

and I must say thats really sweet of u
to take how she feels in consideration.
I congratulate u.

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xxxxxx Answered by brittanyagain on Feb 14, 2009, 02:12PM
329 answers

her vagina is too tight

Answered by xavier420 on Jun 12, 2009, 11:19PM
3 answers

well I am experianceing the same thing. seriously no matter what I do I dont seem to fit. I've done oral on her. I finger her hours no end then I try to fit my penis in her but yet it still doesnt fit

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