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Why does having sex hurts so much?

Asked by thaddeus_gurl_07 about 1 year ago, 8 answers.

well my boyfriend and I have been dating 8 1/2 months and we have sex ,but it hurts so bad I can't even get it all in there.......what should I do???????well he likes it fast and I love it slow...so I want to please him and myself all the time.....not saying I don't please him...... what should I do????????

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Answered by snowboarder on May 22, 2007, 10:22AM
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You need to tell him to take it easy for a while, you still need to be broken in so to speak... your vagina is like brand new so to speak and he needs to use some lube and take it slow for a while until you feel more comfortable... then you can speed it up. I understand you want to please him, but if really cares for you, he won't want to make it hurt for you.

Jason

Answered by thaddeus_gurl_07 on May 22, 2007, 10:40AM
| 14 answers.

oh ok thanks and take care.............he sometimes asks me if im ok but I tell him no he completley stops........and acts really worried........so he gets caught up in the moment an dgoes to hard...............

Answered by icyelene_rd on May 23, 2007, 08:55AM
| 6 answers.

Even after you let your insides grow and get to where they can enjoy sex the first time hurts like hell the cherry gets popped it hurts and bleeds this is normal for all virgins. But right now it sounds like your insides are not done growing. Sex can wait.

Answered by misty_dawn09 on May 24, 2007, 11:02AM
| 11 answers.

BAKER!....I LUV YA girl!.....YOU ARE JUST A SEX FREAK!....MAYBE HE IS JUST TO BIG!

Answered by thaddeus_gurl_07 on May 25, 2007, 05:04AM
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yeah im a sex freak and he is really huge it is to painful but so is randy steph says...........welll love ya girl misty

Answered by misty_dawn09 on May 25, 2007, 06:50AM
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Ol' geezy e peat sake!......lol......thats always good to know....NOT.......lol!.......Welp!.....atleast we are out of history class!......Love ya!.....If you need any more sex advice just ask the questions and I will answer them.....love ya lots!

Answered by thaddeus_gurl_07 on May 25, 2007, 07:11AM
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oh yeah I know that.........welllllll im 18 and loving life.........

Answered by ashnkyle89 on May 25, 2007, 10:49AM
| 4 answers.

well kyle is like that too they like it fast...I do too but sometimes I like it slow ...but most of the time we like it rough and kinky LOL but the sex is always AWESOME!!!! but what I would do is...ummm...just tell him 'honey lets take it slower until I get more used to it rough..lets be passionette and give ourselves some time to bond with romance too'. something like that. I hope im helping you buddie I totally understand.

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