Why do white girls want to date black boys?

I am not trying to sound prejudice but it seems that there are so many mixed relationships out there and I wonder what it is about it ,is just the thrill of having people stare at you.my daughter is in a relationship with a worthless guy who is mexican but before that all she wants is black guys it hurts me because I come from a prejudice family and I get tired of trying to explain something I really dont understand.

I think some white girls date black guys because they think they are cool (all the rappers they see on tv). Some white chicks do it because they feel black guys would be more accepting of them (usually women a little on the thick side). AND THEN you have the ones who dont give a rats behind about color, they just happen to meet a guy that they like.
PS-I speak from experience and from asking questions, because I found it quite weird that I actually met a few white girls that would say they ONLY date black guys and I just found that kind of weird for someone to say.

Wow this sounds crazy but... maybe she loves him? I'm sorry for my sarcasm but many people don't even KNOW why they're prejudice... you say you don't understand... well ask her why she's with him, and I'm sure she will give you some reasons that you should understand if you have ever been in love or with someone. What I don't understand is why white people are prejudice in the first place toward black people. They didn't do anything to white people? Did they? I don't recall that anyway. And so what if her boyfriend is mexican... I'm mexican and I'm a hard worker, religious, kind, and just a pretty good person. I'm not full of myself but I know what my pros and cons are.

Hope that helped.

wow maybe she should meet you I am not saying anything about him being mexican but he is of a darker skin and my daughter will not tell me all I hear is I don't know.

What do you mean 'all I hear is I dont know?' Do you mean she says she doesn't know why she's with him? Sorry I dont understand what you wrote. Also why do you say that she should meet me?

because the guy she;s dating is not working doesn't have a dream or a desire to do anything when I asked him he said I don''t know he thinks when she gets money it is his when she went back to work he's like we going to be ballin now. that stuff just goes thru me,as for meeting you I am at work and didn't really pay attention I just assumed I was talking to a male , honestly I really don't care what color they are as long as they treat her good but it is a shock because no one in my close family is with a person of a different race.and I iknow there has to be something behind it that us older people don't see because where I live most girls that have black boyfriends always have black boyfriends I know the old saying once you go black you never go back but why I really just want an honest answer I am not trying to be mean.

I honestly don't know. I think that is just a stupid saying that someone made up, that some people say once in a while to joke about or maybe some people truly think that, it depends on who you are attracted to and what you like about people. Why did you think I was a male?

well.. I myself is white and I do prefer mexican guys... some girls like mexican guys cause how there attitude is or just how they have alittle color to them... girls are just attacted to what they are attacted too... I wouldnt be soo judgemental they are just people they are like me and you... if she likes to date mexicans let her... its what she likes... shes her own person.. and mexicans are hard workers if you havent noticed any of them working there butts off for there families... if your daughter is still young and the guys she is with is still young then maybe he dont know what he wants to do yet.. because hes not mature enough to know and is just still young I would give this guy some time and atleast a chance..

well I was talking about her mexican boyfriend and you said I am mexican and I work am religious and not full of yourself. maybe I was just thinking that is the kind of guy I want her to be with someone kind respectful hardworking and religious.but then it is not my choice but as a mother you always want the best for your child and for someone to love them as much as you do.

yeah... I know what you mean... But it seems like they are still really young yet... even if they are together for a long time he will know what to do for when he does have a family... he will get a job right now hes seems immature.. just give it some time.

Don't say you aren't being prejudice because you most certainly are!
People can date whatever race they want... whats the big deal?
Its whats on the inside that counts, not the outside.

Who knows why your daughter prefers black and mexican men. Have you tried asking her in a non judgemental, non racist manner? If she's young she could very well just be doing it to p*ss you off and wherefor it might just be a phase if that's how she was raised to view other races. Unfortunatly...
I don't understand why people have color preferences at all. Who a person is on the inside is what matters. Not the color of someones skin. We shouldn't still be having this conversation in the 21st century!
Try taking a look at why you think he's 'worthless'. Are you sure it's not just because he's Mexican? It sounds like it is. Ask youself honestly: Have I really given this guy a chance?

no it is not because he is mexican I lived next to one of the nicest guys in the world and he is a mexican,I also know that most mexicans are very hard workers, I myself think most mexican men are nice looking he is worthless because he doesn't work he steals,smokes weed and has a baby he doesn't support, it is just all things I disapprove of,he's 20 years. old and I don't feel that is still considered to young to know what he wants he should know what he wants out of life and be working towards that goal already

no not all black men date white women because they really love them. sometimes they date them because they see them as a trophy, like a status symbol. and some white women date black men because it's still the taboo thing to do, and it's exciting because it's different. I have a good friend who used to date white women and this is what his relationships were.

Alright, peeweelee. You said you came from a prejudice family and you never said that you yourself did not share your families views. Therefor your distaste for him was suspicious. It still seems like race is still an issue here.
He doesn't sound like a winner but to be fair, I really don't think most of us knew exactly what we wanted in life at 20. I don't balme you for wanting more for your daughter. Hopefully she has some sort of positive male role model in her life and that this guy is just a phase.

most people when the date out of their race dont see the color of the persons skin but they see the persons heart. I date a black boy and never once thought about his skin color or anything like that I fell in love with him without think twice about the race he was. maybe its just this generation that we dont think bout race in a relationship

because they want oreos :-) haha kidding, but just give let her give the guy a chance..if she wants to date black thats her choice. dont bring her down

well I my self am dating black boys;.
I just like that thug style the sagging pants the big tee'z .
I dont understand why people are prejudice because just because they are black or because their mexican hispanic etc etc. doesnt mean they dont have a good heart in the inside and they say well they are into gangs.
well their are too white people into gangs .
their all the same in the inside and if they are like they are .its are fault.
just let em do what they want to do;. its not your life you live;its ares.
we can date what we want not like your doing it.
you should be happy for us not bring us down or judge us.
and personally I think black guys are and mexicans'are *sexier*.
My opinion thouqh,

this is to thug_lover2 for one thing it is always going to be my business what my daughter makes of her life I rasied her giving her everything I thought she needed and a lot that she wanted and I can't stand the fact that she now is giving up jobs to be with him because he don't want to be without her he don't like being alone and my daughter was not raised to just quit jobs and expect everyone else to give her money and pay her bills and he has even asked her to ask her grandma for money so he could have some in his pocket well if he wants it in his pocket then GET A JOB!!! believe me I know there are lazy white guys out there too. but you may not want to admit it because of your relationship but there are a lot of black guys that only want white girls as trophys and because they were raised with some pride , values and morals and they know they will treet them good and they can treet them like crap and I don't understand that and I am sorry you don't see things from my point of view but I don't see them from yours either I don't hate black people or mixed race couples I know a white girl that is with a wonderful hard working black guy that truly loves her to death but before she met him she lived with a guy that got her pregnant everytime he got out of jail and she raised 3 kids by herself so he was a real thug not a want to be thug that just dresses sloppy and acts tough maybe they can pull a gun on you and say now how tough am I but if they got in a real fight they couldn't fight because they would have to stop and pull there pants up every few seconds.I'm sorry I really am that I am apparently prejudice I have a black guy that I have worked with for years that I have talked with him of course he don't wear his pants down to his knees but he says he doesn't hate me for the way that I feel and that he can kind of understand.thak you for the reply and I wish you the best with your relationship but maybe my real problem isn't his race it was just mentioned maybe it is the fact of personality and lack of enthusiasm and I didn't give her everything so she could just let someone walk all over her.and take take take and not give anything to the relationship but sex and a few nice words.

Good Question. Your daughter prefers dark meat because of a myriad of factors. The preeminate one being her sex. Females of the species are opportunistic, not tribal. This dictates that the female will act in her assumed best interest, not the best interest of her culture. The value of a darker male has been artificially exalted over that of the typical Anglo American by an agenda driven mainstream media. This Mainstream media has nefarious intentions for destroying western culture, but I will save this lecture for another day.

White men today are portrayed as enfeebled, mean spirited, exclusively racist(true, but then so is every other male of every other race--tribalism--actually, mainstream media presents minority racism as strong willed struggle for survival, a virtuous quality, contrasted with the white man's struggle for survival as malicious), moronic, infantile, and inferior in every measure of man imaginable.

Your daughter subconciously chooses her lovers from those she deems superior, and these superior specimen have been decided for her by media manipulation. If it were only a matter of 'love' why then would she hop from minority to minority in relationship when by defintion minorities enbody a small percentage of available suitors. It isn't. She is seeking them out. Anglo American males facilitate the escapades of his brood sisters by disregarding his culture and embracing a second tier status amongst neighboring cultures in which he is regarded as a joke. He mistakenly accepts the sloppy seconds of his brood sisters discarded by darker males, because his libido exceeds his synapse count. The white female feels free to explore the darker waters knowing if she gets in over her head the brood brother will have her back. This only serves to encourage more such taboo promiscuity.

If you feel that she is betraying the culture and genes you provided her by her actions than you must decide which is more important to you, she or your manhood. If you decide on the latter tell her you will always love her but will no longer condone her contempt for your culture. If she chooses to continue this lifestyle she will no longer enjoy your support of it. Why should the female be supported by the male whom she finds inferior? Why should the male's desire for cultural perseverance be regarded lower than the female's desire for advantagious genes? Unfortunately this leads to a conundrum in your case as I have stated taking up the sloppy seconds is not in the white males best interest. Hope this helps.

Correction: should read 'preeminent one being her sex' 'subconsciously chooses her lovers'

really should proofread before posting

Just realizing I wrote the above assuming you were male, peeweelee.

I suppose I should redress inasmuch as my earlier advice is intended for a father and somewhat sexist. If you are still married to her father--wake him up--If you are single, consider dating one those nice looking Mexicans. If her mother is doing the same thing she is, the cool factor is out. Perhaps you will find the genes for miscegeny passed down via the mitochondrial DNA. Who knows, in a years time you may be in the arms of your black workmate. The generation gap between your daughter and yourself could then be easily bridged. She would think she had the coolest mom in town.

Hope this helps

why does it matter so much what colour skin the person she dates has?
you say you're not prejudice But it's pretty obvious that you are

misceqenymiser,WOW!!! that is some fancy writing there, I am still married to her father which I have been for 23 years I do think some mixicans are cute as well as some black men,asian men etc. it doesn't mean I would date them, my husband thinks halley berry is a beautiful black woman and I agree.which I do know that she is of mixed race but she is living as a black woman.just because there are people of different races that I find attractive in one sense or another doesn't mean I would date them .,and if you knew how bad things got and how hurt we were when the first time we found out she dated a black guy you wouldn't be so assuming of where I stand,and besides her boyfriend is porta rican or how ever you spell it.

Sorry, I was suffering heavily from my pedanticitis when I addressed you.

Take into consideration these are the jaded words of one who has been chided by so many anglo females on account of his freckled veneer that he is seriously considering entering the monastery or Richard Simmons' harem, whichever will have him. With the added insult of being regarded as racist by simply pointing out the glaring contradictions. Tall, 'DARK,' and Handsome. Why God? Why do you loathe your melanin challenged adherents so? What is it about the caramel color you women find so enthralling anyways? With the advancing nuclear winter you will have wished you purchased the low light efficient model. What... you want all your offspring hobbled with rickets?

Seriously, my response wasn't totally without merit. The white man is being phased out. He was tried and found lacking by the fair sex whom seemingly exalt the virtues, dancing, tanning, and exceedingly proficient membership(you know what I'm talkin' bout).

Wow thats pretty crazy how you call us White-men 'Mean-spirited and Racist' that alone what you just said is racist.

Not all White-men are stereotypically mean and hateful arrogant and believing only white women should date white men. Thats just something thats been apart of the white-men culture for a very long time here in America.

Don't you remember back in the 50's? when the White-man was so prejuduce against black people in there highschools? that went on for a long time. The reason is White-men have long been the far superior commanders even though what they did was sometimes wrong for example: White-men use to have african americans, and indians, as slaves because the White-man was in charge in America. Our culture has a strong past of white-men being the heavily ones in command of everything but now things are different people have there own rights, freedoms, styles, and even there own beliefs.

Like myself I agree with the girl way above, saying what does it matter on the color of your skin? its not what your skin is. Its what your heart is. If you have a hateful and unruling heart only set out for sticking to the most racial views then its going to get you no where in life. You're going to be believing in something wrong, we are in America a nation of freedom.

I'm not racest some of my best friends are black I have nothing aganst them I just don't date them.

I think sometimes people would like to step outside of the box
and experience dating people of diffrent races, then you would
know that its their personality you like or maybe some other specific
trait that they have.

Definitely racist. No matter how you look at it, you are. You say a bunch of black guys want white girls as trophies. What since does that make? You love who you love and skin color has nothing to do with it.

it could be physical attraction at first like any other relationship, and then she could fall in love with him!
I prefer mexican or black, or anything but white guys most of the time and im white!
im just not usually physically attracted to white guys!
its just who I am.
So yeah, you should let your daughter be her, and if people cant accept that, then thats their problem.
Not hers, not her bfs, and not yours.
You shouldn't have to explain your daughter to anybody.
(:

That's generalizing it too much. Not all girls are attracted to blacks. But as for your daughter, she just has that sorta taste. And you can't change someone by force, you have to just let her go and make mistakes. Then she can learn.

well. iim a black girl. && iits just that black men fiindd whiite w0man less c0mplaited [ s0rry if I spelled that wrong ] den black woman.

yes I am black and im proud , but im n0t going to lie... us black women want m0re.
n0t greedy n0.

its just we have more in life to deal with.