Why do we fight and argue?!?

Well you all know the story about me and chris. Me and him are not together yet where still waiting, I think hes going to ask me back out for our 1 year anniversary which is Valentine's Day. Here lately we have been fighting and argueing back and forth,...

and I dont know why?!? We got in a fight the other night and he told me that he just wanted to be friends and see other people and I said if thats what you want then go for it. I want him to be my number 1 in life but I guess thats asking to much. Well the next day around noon I was talking to him and he told me that he was sry and I said sry too. he said he dont want to stay as friends he wants more, but he changes his mind every other day. I love him with all of my heart, and I know he loves me too, but I cant go out here and see other people like he wants to do. it hurts too bad. Why do we fight and argue?!? Why does he change his mind every other day. He tells me that he wants to take it so this time, and not just jump into it. I dotn know im confuse, I know what I want but what does he want?!? He dont know what he wants!! Someone please help me, and fast

You guys are at the point in a relationship were you just argue and argue for any bullsh*t. I went threw it my friends went threw it everybody I know went threw it at a year. Relationships are funny they always start off peachy fucking keen, everybody is at best behaviour and there are no problems.

Then the "act" ends and things start pissing you off, you argue and try to sort it out sometimes you fail sometimes you tough it out and then everything is peachy ones again. You both do love eachother and that's that. You're testing eachother and trying to find out if your compatible or not.

After this fight you should be on clear waters for 2 - 4 months before you start with this whole fighting thing again.

If you love him which it sounds like and he loves you which it also sounds like then the fighting shouldn't go on much longer .

Good luck babyangel