Why do guys act like this?

What is the deal with guys? They message you all the time, flirt with you...you think they like you. And then all of a sudden they completly ignore you? What is up with that...I'm in that predicament...I have no clue what is going on??? I hate...

it...seriously! I want to understand why guys do that because it happened to my friend too!

Maybe that's it. I don't know...you'll have to read my last question, if you want to get into details of what really the deal is with all this and then give an honest opinion...read the whole thread of my last question...I don't know

No...because "mit" lol...turned me down. I put in a message that I liked him, and he turned me down in a nice way though, and I messaged back that I got over him now...and now I'm completely confused.

lol...thanks you did help somewhat...I don't know I feel like there is this social ladder or whatever that makes me think that any of his other friends wouldn't like...even though in the message Mit told me "Don't ever think that someone is out of your leagure, because they're not." That made me feel better, but some part of me thinks that that is how it goes in school...I don't know, I really like the guy I messaged but he just will not talk to me, and I don't know what's going on, and I asked in messages a couple of times and he just ignores them, so earlier I asked mit if he said anything to anybody about "the message" (where I told Mit that I liked Mit)...isn't on now.

I don't take things offensively, at least your honest...unlike some people! Ugh!!! Geez, I don't know...whatever happens happens I guess. But today when I didn't know he was in the library I turn and look and he is looking at me, and I just kind of made a glare face, not at him but just my face went sour and I backed away and went out the door, I was right by it anyways...but still...it's weird...and I don't like it! I guess I'll just have to wait.

Maybe...I like him...but it's too soon...we've only been chatting on the net since last week on Monday and we don't chat much at school but that is because of our schedules...maybe I don't know...whatever happens happens I guess...hopefully he comes to a decision soon..because I am getting agitated...he might have been looking at me because of the message I had sent him the previous night on why he was ignoring me and what the f**k did I do wrong? I don't know, I sounded angry so he probably wants to wait until I cool down a bit...which I did.

Haha. Hey Im the friend that she's talking about. It happended to me too! Stupid guys are from our school! Lol.

Probably not...lol...he is probably confused too...whether or not if he likes me I guess...or he thinks I still like his best friend Mit, if Mit told him about the message...or something...I just wish it would all stop! Does he not know that by ignoring me he is just hurting me?

I hope he realizes I don't like his friend like that anymore...or something...I really like him, we have so much in common...we sent many messages than all of a sudden it stops...I don't know...maybe he is hurting because of the message (if he told him), and he doesn't realize I like him...I don't know how he could not. lol I wish he knew he was hurting me. I told him in a message or asked "am I annoying you" (ignored), did I do something wrong (ignored).

Hmmm... Nikki, I really don't know what is wrong with "Mit" or "Chocolate Man." Lol. Seriously we got to think of new names for them. Oh and of course my "Chocolate Afro" man. Lol.

Yeah...maybe Monday...tomorrow he and his friends are going to state for b-ball so yeah...can't do anything until Monday I guess...but I don't think I can...he might just brush me off and walk away...you know what...I don't care I will try! Or something...lol...guys are stupid but you are one of the smart ones!!! lol

Haha. I agree. I'm just going to move on! Seriously Louie is stupid! Lol. I like afros now.

(sorry inside joke between ladydon and I)

You did.

some guys are scared of commitment if they sense a girl getting too close they get scared on drop the relationship

lol lilt were you talking about you me and anna? and I mean he could of just been leading you on I mean I dont know the story. Have you been like flirting with other guys becasue as soon as a guy thinks you like another guy mos tof the time he will give up and no even try. He could just not be ready for a relastionship and if he keep talking to you then you guys would of got togethe. Then again I dont no the whole story but im here to help if you would like soo..