Why do people make a big deal out of virginity?

virginity isn't that big of a deal. its just either you've had sex or you haven't.a very unimportant part of life.

I know like im a virgin and I dont want to have sex until im married and people are like uhm wow you want to wait that long and im like yeahh. haha.

virginty is ment to be really special and your only ment to loose it with the person you love, your sole mate etc but young teenagers are all under a lot of pressure because they dont want 2 be teased about being a virgin and so on!

I don't think most adults obsess like teenagers do. Virginity is important because sex is important. Sex is also mysterious and interesting and appealing, especially when you have never had it. As an adult, the age you lost your virginity is about as important as your highschool GPA, to me anyway.

I think if you were brought up with morals, and values, you wouldnt view virginity like its nothing!

well put it this way, do you really want to be talking to a friend when your about 30, and she says how special her first time was, and yours was with a guy you idnt really care about because you thought sex wasnt a bit deal?
make the mistake if you want but you might end up regretting it when you get a bit more mature.