Why do people have boyfriends/girlfrends at an early age?

Why do people have boyfriends/girlfrends at an early age? I mean...I see teens at my school making out and stuff...(which is really disturbing by the way). WHy do do they do this even when its NOT their age to do it ???!?!?. I mean...shouldnt they wait...

till their wedding day?

Lots of kids have childish boyfriends, theres nothing wrong with that at all. And I really don't see how teenagers making out is discusting, its fu*king high school what else do you expect?
You are wackkkeeddd!

wait to make out till there married?? are you fu cking retarded?? you seriously have to be on some sort of medication to think something so stupid. I had my first boy friend in 3rd grade. what the fu ck is wrong with making out as a fu cking teenager??

ps sorry I just have a lot of feelings&I stick with what I believe in.

you have every right to have your oppinion that this kind of thing should occur after marrage and don't let anybody tell you you are wrong. if thats what you believe that is good and people must respect you for it.

At the same time, not everybody is the same. All people have different oppions about everything and you have to accept that other people think differently.

Just rememer - Do what you think is right, other people will do what they think is right.
Dont let people tell you you are wrong and try to accept that other people are different too

wait to make out till there married?? are you fu cking retarded?? you seriously have to be on some sort of medication to think something so stupid. I had my first boy friend in 3rd grade. what the fu ck is wrong with making out as a fu cking teenager??

ps sorry I just have a lot of feelings&I stick with what I believe in.

Some people grow up faster than others, maybe they have an older sibling they are trying to immitate or something, but most definately they are trying to act older by becoming sexual so young. When I was about 14, before my best friend got a boyfriend, it wasn't really an issue, but once she did, I felt I needed one too, so I got one. Then they started fooling around, so did me and my boyfriend cause I thought it was cool. Basically I was trying to keep up with my "fast" friend, who, in a way was influencing me.

I dont think there is a problem with it. I do think that a lot of people my age think they're in love though. If you're 16 or younger you more than likely ARE NOT in love. I cannot speak for the people older but I do know that boys (since I am one) don't really love the girls because they don't really understand what love is. I think that it is okay to kiss and have girlfriends and stuff but you shouldn't take it too seriously cause more than likely your heart WILL GET BROKEN!!!

well im NOT allowed to have a boyfrend. Im supposed to save my "kiss" for my future husband beacuse it wouldnt be true love if I already kissed a boy in my teen years. ITS like spreading love to two different husbands...

omg thats crazy. aren't you supossed to save your virginity for marrige? I don't know maybe that's just you but thats kinda wierd. people in my school get made fun of if they have never had a boyfriend or girlfriend.

umm...I dont think that theres anything wrong with kissing before your married...I think that the saying is that your not suppsed to have SEX before marriage but a lot of people do that too

judymoody don't worry that's the indian way... I can hook you up with a fellow indian like yourself? don't be ashamed of these white people kissing in the hallway while you just stare... I'll hook you up

danielleee, a boyfriend in 3rd grade? I think your the one whos on medication!

duude you wait till then you wont know how to do notin and ull look dumb...

Having a boyfriend as a kid used to be so much fun. Now kids everywhere are taking themselves a wee bit seriously that I no longer think of their relationships as "cute."

>>>people in my school get made fun of if they have never had a boyfriend or girlfriend.

Hurray for peer pressure.

Teenagers seriously need to get backbones, and stop letting peer pressure influence them.

u guys are all stereo typing about teenagers... dont worry im used to it.
just take judymoody for example lol

personally I think girls should have an early interest in boys and vise versa, how else will they even know what to do when they finaly do get married??!

this is a really stressing and counfusing situation for meee...

In some cultures, it isn't considered acceptable to kiss until their wedding day. In western cultures this isn't a value which is commonly held, if at all. So, judymoody100, if it is a part of your culture not to kiss anyone but your husband, and its something you agree with, then by all means stick with it. However, respect the fact that others don't feel the same way and don't share the same belief.

People get into relationships at an early age because they want to be adults and the dont understand that they still need time.

guru123 I totally disagree with you, they get boyfriends& girlfriends cause they like them.

I should know, I've been there.

...yes, but have you been over eighteen? guru123 knows what he's talking about and you don't - I can tell.