Why do people ask for advice and then get mad?

I was wondering why everyone is such a bi*ch to me? I mean, they ask for advice and some people on the question say the same thing I did and they're perfectly fine with it. People who ask questions, say they want advice, They want the truth. But then...

when I give them the truth, that they;re too young (11-16) and that they should wait to have sex until they're married and in love, they get SO SO SO mad at me.And it really upsets me. It makes me feel like I;'m a bad person or something. When I'm just giving them my honest opinion. Why do they always get mad?

Well, I see you give a lot of females advice, and at first, I thought you were a guy because of the pic, then looked at you profile and realized you were also female. So, then instead of sounding like some rude, judgemental guy (only on some of your answers), you now remind me of a big sister or wise woman trying to give younger girls mostly good advice, so I suggest changing your main pic to a pic of you or something more feminine and sometimes elaborating on your shorter answers so they will understand where you are coming from and not get so mad at you! Hope this helped!

they want advice on what there asking, not some bs answer about how there too young

But I'm just trying to tell them that I think that they would be better off if they didn't have sex SO SO young.
It's not like I;m the only one telling them. Other people are too, and they dont get mad at them. Only me.

People dont like to be criticized. Not everyone's going to listen even if the advice is true to heart. Thats just the way it goes.

I never said that they had to listen. I'm just wondering why they get MAD.I mean they type in all capital letters.

Thank you.

hey u gave me great advice that no one else did, I never did say thanx so, thank you!

Your pic is of a guy - took me ages to look at your profile and realise you're actually a chick. So for a long time I thought you were an angry guy (I have no idea who or what Randy Orton is/does, so though it might actually be a picture of you, and that your real name was randy). But you're also very young, and I'm sure a lot of people take issue with that since you're offering some rather hard opinions and specific views, and don't necessarily have the life skills to back it up - I.e. you have not yet been there, done that or wished I'd done things differently. Others saying the same sort of thing are usually much older. Your advice may not be wrong, but its the way you give it which helps to rub others up the wrong way as well. Also others have different moral views on things - I'm sure most agree you should wait until you are truly in love before you have sex, but not all would agree you should wait until you are married. Not everyone who is in a committed relationship gets married, some people don't like the idea of marriage - doesn't mean their relationship isn't any less stable or meaningful.

Just don't be so harsh with the opinions, and you'll most likely get a better response. Remember they're asking for advice, not for a lecture.

But sometimes people need a lecture. I mean once there was a 11 or 12 yr. old who came on here aking if it was okay for her to have sex just to see what it was like. Not because she was in love. But she just wanted to have sex for the sake of having sex. So, do you think SHE should be having sex? (not trying to sound mean or like I have an attitude, I'm just asking)

And I've just decided something. I don't care AT ALL what other people think of my advice. If they like it, they like it. If they don't like it, they don't like it. It's my honest opinion and they asked for it.
So you don't have to waste time answering this question.

you know what the website is called www.funadvice.com... and if they're going to be a$$es about it then forget them. sorry you had to deal with that crap.

Thanks. But what are you apologizing for? You didn't do anything.

Because they want to hear an answer that they will agree with. They already know what answer they want to hear, they are just waiting for someone to actually say it, then they'll say thank you and all that crap.. usually its just questions am I slut 4 having sex at 12 or w/e and if you said yes they would just F**k you blah blah.. so obviously they were asking for theno your not a slut at all which is just screwed up. lol

just ignore their rude comments, randyo. And live on wit your life...
Also this is just enternet, who cares if the plp in here are mad at u , or angry and what not...

I don't know you but anyway your only 14, and im almost 18 and your sitting there telling me im too young for sex. Well im older than you, and that ticked me off a little bit. it was a while back. And btw I was planning on waiting till marriage. I dont mean to be rude.

When did I tell you that? I don;'t think that when you're 18 you;re too young. But I do believe that can still not be ready for sex. It just depends on how mature you are. And, sorry if I offended you.

its okay,!!! now that we got that cleared up!! 3~~ =]

When people aren't really ready for the truth they tend to get angry and mad , which in the long run means their learning and they know what you said to them is right .

We all do that from time to time

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They get mad because they only want you to agree with them. If you have a differing opinion or advice they get mad and their immaturity shows. I personally don't care if someone likes my advice or not. If you ask a question, have the courage to hear the answers. I'm not going to candy coat it for anyone.

im 16...heres how it goes...your maturity level is here... ---* teens are here ---*-- they want to party party sex sex all the time...as for me im waiting untill later in my life..I grew up with mostly adults so my maturity level is higher (mentaly) so don't take it personaly they are testosterone driven kids...hope I helped some...

they're looking for advice, not opinions
and if someone asks for an opinion like 'am I too young toi have sex'
than they should be prepared to except other peoples views