Why do men lie so much

I've been with my man for over 3 years and in the 3 years he lie almost everyday when hes out of state he is always on the chat line and tells other hoes that he aint got a girl an then he comes home and wanta girl like me to hook him up and its bullsh*t im...

hurting inside and its getting so old he will not let me kiss him hold his hand touch him hug him or anybody contact in public but as soon as we get home he want to be all over me he tells me one day he hates me then the next day tha as*h*le loves me and recently he stopped sleeping in our bed he sleeps on the couch he yells at me when I ask him to drop me off at work but I've been driving him around for a yr and a half bec he just now got up off his ass and got his license its like he enjoys hurting my feelings and he says to me you aint going no where no matter how mean or what I do to hurt you, so I just need advice becuse I feel like he doesnt love me anymore or never did and he just wants the joy and luxury of a live in girlfriend but wants to treat me like a roomate so if anyone has advice pls let me know.

What an as*h*le! Don't get further involved with him, he might not know what he wants but thats not fair to involve you in it. Do what you need to do to get back on your feet as an independent woman. you are strong, and he will one day realize what he lost. He needs to learn this. you deserve better.

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I say leave him even if its just for about 1 week and see what happens. he might come crawling back to you. thats one thing I HATE your boyfriend not wanting to give you attention in public thats f*cking nasty !! good luck ok.....

Drop his ass. Plain and simple. You don't need a man like that in your life who will treat you like garbage. Find a man that will treat you like the good woman you are. You don't owe him anything! All he's doing is using you for a free ride, and if I were you, I'd be really pissed if I knew I was being used like that!

Just get rid of him. The sooner, the better.

hello sweetie, the best thing you can do is date a man and let him see both of you. you know what? all guys will feel something even he loves you or not...you try to loosen up...dont give all your focus to him...u see now how he treats u , the more it gets worse if you both live in the same roof as family.so by now, try to open door for somebody, love yourself now...guys are neurotic!try to pamper urself, going to spa,,beauty parlor, and many more, you will then realize life is fun..u are the molder of your destiny, the author of your faith, the marker of your life! okie?smile now sweetie

Your answer is right there in your post. If he calls you names which is abuse, then you need to leave him. I understand, trust me, I totally understand what you are going through. I have been through same thing about the online chat thing and my b/f's lies about them. But once abuse starts, it wont stop because you dont leave him. He knows you wont leave. You may feel hurt in beginning and feel like life wont go on, but it will and it does and there is someone out there that is right for all of us. We just got to go through the bad apples to get to the good ones. good luck and find yourself a hero and get rid of the zero.

basicly you answer that question you self , he probably not working out of time first of all, if he cannot so any feelin in the public the other is some where around or probably right under you nose you keep an close watch out . and when he say he out he just spending time with her but he is useing you and your home as an hotel where he can practicly check in and check out so he can make sure you have got anyone else he tells you hatefuly things so he can have an reason to leave and vist the other friend just just in case you do find out he can say the mens favorite phrase you cause me to do or you drove me there insisted of saying I am soory or tell you the love \triangle is not there so go out and have fun guy will be guy and relax and meet people so true lover will come your path and watch out he will sweep you off you heel , GOOD LUCK