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Is it normal to get jealous? This girl everyone looks at her..we use to be friends but now she moved on her life..and people talk good about her..I hate the fact I am jealous of her..this feeling is crappy I feel mean and pathetic... Shes around 5 ft. With pretty long black, shiny, silky hair. Her eyes are cute. Her nose is perfect no to small or to big. Shes skinny with medium breast lol..why I'm I jealous of her??auhh..anyways, did you ever feel jealous of anybody..describe the person your jealous of..lol...because I feel like I am so black hearted because shes sweet..and I shouldn't be jealous of her:(
I'm used to be jelous of my best friend, but then I realized that me and her are just two different kinds of people and some like me more some like her more, depends. But she's like 5'3 really good hair cute face pretty eyes I mean olive skin. I mean we arent to much apart other then our facial structures and features, but I liked her petite body and her outgoing attitude. Anyways, I learned though that I'm really pretty in my own way and some guys like a tall girl, im tall btw 5'10 yaaa. Anyways, if she is doing well in her life and she's a sweet girl honest you know all that good stuff. Your jelous because I think because most perfect girls arent sweet, but really stuck up. At least you had something on em. Start changing that mindset.
Think of her as refreshing because honestly remember you are who you are and shes who she is. Bring out the features that you have and just know that it's better to have a good person then a mean and negative one. Time for you to be happy with yourself and accept other's happiness. Thats all it is.
I was jelous of my friends and I can get jelous of people I dont even know lol. Im 5ft 2 which is very short. My boyfriend says im cute and adorable because im so tiny, im a size 10 with 34F boobs. My I feel unnattractive when I pin myself up against other women. Despite how nice he says I am I still feel threatened. I was picke don a lot when I was younger from teh ages of 8 - 16 and was called ugly and fat. The feeling has stayed with me. I try to think well...everyone out there is ugly to someone and everyone out there is beautiful to someone. Not everyone will feel the same way you do anout this girl and some people will. I wish I was tall, slender and had a prettier face. But you cant get what you want all the time. Everyone is unique! Hope this helped
Ugh Yes yes yes!!! I definetly know the feeling!!! I hate it when I get jealous of people. But then I realized two things, 1 You may be jealous of them for something but they could be jealous of you for another thing. and 2 It's called the Halo effect. If everyone thinks that she's perfect then they're not going to see the real her. Everyone's going to think she's an angel and that she's great making her seem better then everyone else. So maybe because you were friends with her you can see down deeper and try not to get so jealous. Btw- I was jealous for the longest time of a girl who was short and considered cute because she was so little. I'm also tall so I know what that's like. Good luck with everything!
I definitely understand. I used to be jealous of my one of my good friends. And it is really just jealous because I'm a tomboy and she's a girly-girl. And guys look at her more than I. It's crazy and I'm over it now. And you don't want to because she's not doing anything bad except being herself. Is there a guy you like who likes her?
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I know exactly how you feel, same thing im going through right now. This girl is skinner has more curves, nicer hair... and so on.
thanks you guys..it helped a lot!!
