Why do i feel they dont want me?

I know this is not an entertainment question, but id really appreciate if you answer it even though its not. So anyways I have 2 best friends, mariam and shima, well I have a lot of best friends but they are my favorite,,,During recess we all always sit...

together, study, eat, and play. But now, its been 3 years, and im starting to think they dont want me as a friend anymore, or mabey im being too annoying for them. Im scared! One of the incidents that really convinced me was when my friend asked us all to come to chilis, mariam told shima and not me,,,but sooner or later I found out.
So then I saw them talking when I came back from my exam,,,I went and said hi
Then I heard mariam saying: are you coming tomorow to chilis?
Shima: yea...
Mariam: why dont you come to my house and from there we'll go together?
Shima: absouloutely!

Then they left me and started talking about what they want to wear,,,and everything.

I went to chilis and saw them both sitting in one table and I had no-one to sit with!

Why am I starting to feel they don't want me to be with them anymore??

Please help me!

Thanks a lot,,,

xxx

Your question was:

Why am I starting to feel they don't want me to be with them anymore?

The answer is quite obvious. Because of their actions around you.

You feel that way, because, as of late they are not including you in plans that they make. You are rather being ignored and not included in the group. Also, you are a very sensitive and artistic person by nature and you have a tendency to get your feelings hurt more often than normal people. So, there is a good chance that they don't really understand how they are making you feel by how they are acting.

For the most logical approach, you may want to speak with them about it first. Don't just assume a situation is fact unless you investigate it first. Also, think about finding some new friends. Let's face it. Friends just don't do that to friends. If their actions are intentional, then it's time to move on.

Friends are important in your life, but if their actions are as you describe and are intentional ... then they are not really true friends to begin with. It may just be time to move on to better friends. There is a whole world out there of them.

:-)

Maybe they are doing something together FOR YOU and need to be away from you for a short amount of time? Even if what you say is true I doubt it would last.

Ask them so you'll know and not worry yourself speculating - you can certainly make new friends if needed...I wish you the best !!

Anyways,,thanks people for your advice...I made new friends..but I don't want them to think that I am avoiding them...so sometimes I hang out with them, and sometimes with other people. That way I won't be annoying. And so I learned that if you stick too much to people, they are going to dislike you. LoL, I sound so smart!

Once again,,,Thank you all for your amazing advice!!

well sometimes its the other way around,,when you stick too much to someone its only will strength the relation,,getting a friend not a problem but ,,keeping a friend is what all need to do,,cause losing any of them will hard on you,,but you also should know that the situation on the place where you live is like everyone busy with his own life,,when friends around you get busy with other stuff and might have no time for you you might think they are avoiding you but the fact is not,,they are just busy

I dont wanna say much,,hope you having a good time now :-)