Why do guys use me?

They use me. Plan and simple.

They use me to get what they want. When they know I want to have a relationship. They tell me they love me. They really do seem like they mean it too. Its getting out of hand. I've been pretty much raped twice this month...

along.First time a guy stuck his pen*s down my throat and kept it there while I was gaging and trying to get away. He finally let go and said "I told you I can get mean". The second time...well thats a long story and if you want to know more about that, ready my other question. I can't stand it any longer.

My ex-boyfriend just called me tonight and asked if I would be willing to give him a blowj*b and more. Why do they do this ?? I even told him (my ex-boyfriend who has a girlfriend) that I hate when guys do that. And yet he does it to me.

I don't understand. I'm afraid that this will keep happening too. I really can't stand this anymore. What happen to the nice boyfriend. I feel used and mistreated. Its really starting to hate myself. I know thats bad, but thats what its coming out to be.

...is it my fault for letting it all happen ?? Is it all my fault ??
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omg girl, why are you letting these 'boys' take advantage of you?? You must fall for guys easily. Just concentrate on school and not on boys, wait til your 20 and above to date. Ignore the guys that have done all this stuff to you in the past, dont ever talk to them again. Just stay close with your family and your work. I know this will be hard cause you probably feel wanted by them but really they are just using you for booty call because they know you`ll be up for it, this is not good. Take my advice! K?

They are only taking advatage of you because you're LETTING THEM.
Don't fall for it time after time after time after time.
And if you've been raped, why haven't you gone to the cops?

You can't be ''pretty much raped'' as you put it. You were either raped or you weren't.
You said that your ex-boyfriend wants you to give him a blo*job right?
Well, you don't HAVE to say yes.

You can say a VERY small word.

NO!
Guys only use you because you let them.
It's as plain and simple as THAT.

And you're too young to even be having sex or giving blo*jobs.

You may appear to these boys as a bit of a push-over. But you needn't be! You need to stand your ground. I know it may be difficult considering these guys are forcing you to do things you're extremely uncomfortable with. But for example, if they phone you and ask you to meet up with them. Say NO because no doubt it will probably end up with them making you do something you don't want to do.

You also need to wait for Mr Right to come along. Don't get involved with any ex-boyfriends again because they seem like trouble.

I've had so many relationship problems and I told myself I'd wait a while before going out with anyone again. I waited and my Mr Right came along.
Hope you're ok.

If you feel that boys are using you, and you hate this, then change all the situation, and start you to use them. You may also have demands. Tell YOU them that what you wants, and do not care about that what they want. And go out only with those boys who do that want you say to do. And to all the others' boys you may say that you do not like them at all.

Yep... its YOUR fault...

obviously you know the reason why they use you. they know your easy. grow up.

and keep your pants on.

...and mouth closed.

dang what kind of people do you go out with?!?!? god thats just cruel, I dont know anyone who would do that.

Dear Julehh,
It is not your fault you are just dealing with as_ holes that really don't care about you t all but don't blame yourself you are just have to keep on trying their are some good guys out here the maybe a little hard to find but when you do you will see what I am telling you is right. Don't take a guy have sex with you if you don't want to that is RAPE pure and simple. Next time they try some thing like that ask them if they would like to go to jail a long time for rape. I hope this helps

its most definetly not your fault. when girls get raped that NOT their fault. Please message me!