Why do guys do this?

how can a guy say a bunch of crap to one girl and the same crap to anotherr. and have sex with both of them. I really just dont get guys. I dont see how they think they can have feelings for two girls at one time. gahh it hurtss.

he doesn't really have feelings for the two girls at the same time. he is just using both of them for their bodies.

First off, sorry you got hurt. I've been there - it bites. Still trying to get over it.

Well there is one thing you have to understand. Your average guy is about as emotionally deep as a kitty pool compared to you girls out there. And sadly a lot of guys don't care about the girls feelings and are just have getting laid - with the bottom line coming down to he pulled the 'bunch of crap' right out of his a$$, and its mostly bull.

***Why do guys do this?***

Because girls let them...

***I dont see how they think they can have feelings for two girls at one time.***

Who said anything about feelings? He just wanted sex, and he manipulated both of you, plain and simple. That's how players operate.

woww.even if he talked to both girls for a pretty good amount of time, seperately?

yep he was playing both girls. just wanted in their pants. there was no love just lust.

ouch.that kind of hurts even more. : / it's like everything was one whole big lie

***even if he talked to both girls for a pretty good amount of time, seperately?***

...yes... its pretty common for teenage boys to ONLY care about scoring. Just as its pretty common for teenage girls to fall victim to it.

***ouch.that kind of hurts even more. : / it's like everything was one whole big lie***

It probably was, considering how fast he dropped you after you had sex with him. One question though: in your last thread, you said that you and this guy were ''talking'' for nine months. Is that it all? Were you talking, or dating, or in an exclusive relationship?

captainassassin, he is nineteen lol. anddd we've had sex previously. andd it was like we was on and off. but even when we were off, he told me I couldn't mess with no one and he wasn't gunnh mess with anyone. and see I mean I'm kinda curious if this was revenge sex towards me, cause a few days before he had sex with her twicee, he had found out I was planning on cheating on him. even though we aren't together. and then he kept telling the girl that he hated me and was mad at me. and told her to tell me so he could see what'd I would say and stuff. but I mean he said sweet stuff to her.but maybe it was to get her to have sex with him or irdk captainassassin: /

***he is nineteen lol.***

...like I said... teenage boy...

***but even when we were off, he told me I couldn't mess with no one and he wasn't gunnh mess with anyone.***

...how very controlling of him...

***he had found out I was planning on cheating on him. even though we aren't together.***

...that isn't cheating...

***and then he kept telling the girl that he hated me and was mad at me. ***

Ugh... he's a drama-queen too? That's pretty pathetic. Drop him, move on, raise your standards.

thanks (: you've helped a lot! I appreciate yr advice(: