Why do girls do what they do?

2 years ago I fell in love witha girl, I mean head over heals and ever since then I dont have one memory without her, there is so much to say but not enough time, so ill make this short. for the longest time we were unseperable. we had something special,...

but to me nothing is as special as her. she was and has always been my every thing. I gave every thing I had, there was nothing I would stop at to please her, until that day 3 weeks ago we were in love. until that day, when I found out she liked a friend of mine, a feeling that I have she said. the bag thing was I saw it coming and I new it was going to happen. this girl crushed me, destroyed me, she took everything away and left me with nothing as if I had never mattered to her at all. today iam going to see her, today if the plan goes right, I will finally be able to let go and give her my last final farewell. so that she can go on with her life and forget about me, as I will her. the memories will burn inside me for the rest of my life. the two things I will never forget was my senior prom, were I got the dj to play are song and as I held her, carried her and shared one of the greated times of my life with her. two was are first kiss and how I long for more. I dont want to hold her back any more, how do you let go of your first true love, how do you forget, how do you go on without your soulmate, best friend, lover , and the only person who ever cared about me, How? how do you do it and just go on wondering in 30 years what will happen to you and her. how do you stop heartbreak that will take the rest of my life to get over

heyys, sorry to hear that. I kind of know how your feeling.. I once had feeligns for this guy about 2 years ago.. and he sed that he saw me more than a friend as well. then something happened and he had a sudden regret of tellin me that... it hurts now because even though I have a boyfriend atm, I still have feelings for him deep down .. there are signs now that could mean that he has something for me.. but I doubt it .. I dont know when or if I should tell him how I feel...
I dont really know what to say to you to help you get over her.. but what I rekn the truth is.. " love that you cant have lasts the longest, is the deepest and hurts the most.. "
I gess I do know how your feeling.. your holding onto something thats not going to be there .. what im doin atm is just bottling up all my feelings .. its not the best thing to do buh yehs..

something I did recently to ease my feelings was that I kind of wrote him a letter spilling everything. I dont know when hes going to receieve it .. but I thought if I thought I was ready to let him know, I can just givehim that besides talkin to him and gettin interuptions before I can tell him everything..

I dunno if all this helps but yehs.. lol sorry if it doesnt. =]

I wish I knew the answer to your question... I've been going through something similar. For me, those that I confide in are all telling me I need to cut her out of my life, forget her and move on, but I can't do that - how can you possibly try to forget the best thing that ever happened to you, the best time of your life, the one ray of sunshine that managed to brighten up your entire day, every day? It is not something that would be easy to throw away. Probably, for both our sakes we should, but neither of us wants to. Its okay for her because all this is a choice she made, but for me it is much harder because it is something that was put upon me whether I liked it or not, and in fact was the last thing in the world I ever wanted. But it is what she wants, and so it must be.

At the end of the day, we just need to try and deal with it and move on. I don't think we'll ever give up those feelings entirely, they will always hold a special place in our hearts. My friends have been great support, even though they don't understand fully, but they care - one has even been trying to set me up with friends of hers. But dating someone else is unlikely to make the heartbreak go away - I think we just need to learn to live with it, in time it will heal and scar, but probably never completely heal. It is just the price we have to pay for being through such a wonderful time.

You're not alone dude...

This is the fate of the 95% of the so called "first loves". The world is big, the people are interesting, so your (ex? I am not sure about it) g/f became curious of the world, I mean of other boys, how she can kiss with them, etc. This is the average life. So I advice you to accept my sentence what I say to myself in critical life situations: " if something is ending, then somthing else is beginning". So just say yourself that you are also curious of the world and of other girls, and go ahead. If your love with this girl was so especial as you feel then once you will get together again, but after certain experiences with other lovers. And that is OK. It is not possible to live all the life in one room without going out of it. Once I had a g/f who was married with her real first love. She told me that they broke up at least five times in their life, but always got together. She was in may bed just naked, but she called her husband to say him " I love you". And I beleived that, she loved his husband. That was a real interesting "first love" story.