Why did he change?

Why did he let me get to know someone who wasnt even who he was? So I've been with my boyfriend for a little over a year now. When I met him he was sweet, romantic, like to do things, Love pictures and going to the movies.. Cudding and just having fun....

But now we dont do anything at all. he states he hates cuddling its dumb he hates the movies They give him headaches and I cant remember the last time he was romantic. Why would he let know someone who was fake?

Shangy is absolutely correct and you should assert yourself before letting yourself get the doormat treatment. Don't get hung up by him. Drop him.

My wife and I have had similar issues where we assert out independence at the of the other's feelings. Unless their is some sort of anchor in your relationship strong enough to hold you both grounded together, then definitely bail on him. Don't do anything to try to hurt him because odds are that it will blow up on you.

Men get a little needy of space after a while as well. This doesn't necessarily mean he will go looking for other women, but don't count out the idea. Testosterone is a huge motivational tool for men. And as a man who has very real needs I can attest that it takes discipline to not jump on the next thing that smiles right at me.

Sounds sad. Could be a couple of things.

#1: He is one of those guys that was simply 'courting' you. They act different to win your love then once they have you, they act like their true selves figuring you are hooked on them and won't leave them.

Or worse

#2: He is acting mean and totally different hoping you will break it off with him. Maybe he wants or has someone new.

The only positive thing I can think of is that maybe he is simply bored with your relationship and you need to spice it up some for him? Maybe he is just having a moody time?

Hopefully all will be OK. -Huggums-
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