Why can't the person I love fall for me?

ohk now this is kinda a very long story, let me start out by saying that I am 13 and live in santa monica ( los angeles , ca). also im not a retard and I know how to spell but im really tired and sad so im going to type un professional. if you dont like...

gay people than you dont want to read this. becuase im bi and this is about a girl that im inlove with..

so basically I've had boyfriends, sex, been pregnant, done drugs, im mature now im done with all of that bullcrap, I know im not old and wise yet but im past that other stuff.the one person that got me through all that stuff was my friend gabi.. no this isnt one of those storys where I fell lezbo inlove with my bestfriends, she was bi before I new her and so was I. we went to the same school, she is a year older, and we started to kinda talk ( you know like say that we want to be together and like eachother and stuff) so this is a time frame of our realtionship

feb-march- new her she new me, didnt talk but hung out with same people sometimes, and had p.e together
late march early april- started talking and beocming friends
april-may- started hanging out, phone calls and everything
june- I started falling for her and she said that she was falling for me
july- I started really falling inlove with who she was, but was starting to notice she didnt like me that much anymore
auguest- I was so inlove wih her
sept-december: she loved me being inlove with her, I wud by her flowers and tiffanys and gave her everything and we wud always have sleepovers because we wud do stuff and even tho I new she didnt like me I still needed to be with her
jan- I decided I neeed to get over her, ebcause she likes when people play hard to get
feb: she told our good friend megan that she started to like me a lot again and was falling for me, so now I dont no if I shud still pretend to be over her, or just tell her im not really over her

I kniw that all you adults with bigger problems probly think that this is sooo tiny, but its all I think about, its more than just a crush, I havent liked one person in a lil less than a year, I cant handle it

I need to know if you have any advice for gettign her, getting over her, what I shud say or do , or anythinng

PLEASE reply

x0x0x0x00x0x0x00x paige

well if she's telling someone else that she is starting to like you a lot again, then you need to get the story straight before you become even more confused. sit her down and ask her straight up if she likes you. if she does, then you guys should try and start an actual relationship that's not completely based on the sex. if it turns out she doesn't like you, then tell her to screw off because she's just f*cking with your mind and it's not cool. try your best to get over her, because it's not worth being in love with someone who is just there to play mind games and use you for sex.

You are SOOO pretty and I really have to wonder if she's using you. I really think you should forget all about her and look elsewhere, even if it seems very painful, you don't need that type of drama.