Why can't I reach org**m?

me and my boyfriend have been intimate a few times and im not sure that I've reached or had an org**m. iz because intercourse is painful for me that I dont have orgasms???

Firstly intercourse shouldnt be painfull, you need to find out why. Get checked out by your doctor. Secondly, if intercourse is painfull then that is going to put you off of relaxing and enjoying s*x and probably the reason you haven't reached and org**m. If you do org**m you will know it, so therefore I doubt if you have.

Good luck.

If this is your first time having intercourse then it will be painful, untill after a while the pain will go away, if you feel nervous or unrelaxed that could also be the reason why intercourse is painful or it could even be that if your partner has quite a big pen*s then that could also be another reason.

Believe it or not a lot of women are unable to have an org**m and some even go to the extent of faking it.

Before you begin intercourse play around a lot, example, kissing, cuddling, fore play etc in order for you to become aroused, also try different positions.

If you still feel pain whilst having intercousre then I would suggest that you see your doctor for a check up just to be on the safe side.

There's also a large percentage of woman who simply DON'T climax during intercourse. You should have him experiment with oral, manual stimulation, or vibrators...