Why can't my man cum?

asheebabee18 Asked by asheebabee18 over 3 years ago, 67 answers.

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a couple months. And have been having sex for 11 months. But I have not seen any actual cum come out his penis except for a lil bit of precum. Hes only 19 and says its cause hes been having sex a lot...

in the past. I have read info on the computer but of course it doesn't help at all. I have to admit that I do tell him I want to have his baby now. We are in a long distance relationship but we see each other either evry weekend or every other. I talk to him every day except when he on the job and even then he calls to check up on me. I know hes not cheating (at lease thats what I believe). I also know I have some good stuff, if you know what I mean. So why cant he cum?

Answered by blacksingularity on Sep 26, 2009, 10:44AM
8 answers

I had the same problem and was able to get an eventual solution...I have had sex a few time but only cum and quiet regulalry now with my girlfriend...
-I figured meaningless sex does not turn me on and hence trouble coming with random new partners...
- and overdose of porn and masterbation numbs your senses.
- so when I started seeing my girlfriend I stashed away the porn and cut down on masterbation...
- now she complains that sex was better earlier when did it countinuosly for hours...women...u just cant satisfy them

Answered by big_country on Oct 16, 2009, 07:08AM

Wow! I Have the same problem, I'm in a relationship with a wonderful woman, we are both 26, she is very sweet, cute, and affectionate, we can talk for hours, we are both college graduates, we both have great career's. We click on every level, but in the bedroom she is inexperienced. She has had horrible experiences with ex-boyfriends who she said criticized and poked fun at her about not being able to perform well in bed, I don't do this but when I just try to talk to her about it, just give her some instruction on how to get me off, she gets embarrassed and starts crying, and tells me stuff like, I'm just never going to satisfy you, so why don't you just leave me and find someone who can! It really hurt's because I love her so much, and It pisses me off at the same time, that she is so hung up on how her ex's treated her that she won't talk to me about it and try to work on it. So I'm stuck in a situation that I'm afraid might drive me away from her, I'm Damned if I do Damned if I don't.

Answered by 5nyyji4 on Oct 17, 2009, 05:50AM

ya pussy not gud

=] Answered by missrightgirl on Nov 10, 2009, 07:03PM
100 answers

Well if you only see him every weekend or every other weekend , really thats not much sex. an really you've been together for a few months and your already telling him you want his babies?he might be scared to cum cause of that.My boyfriend and I have sex a lot.I can get him to cum twice a day sometimes aha.

ALL EYEZ ON ME Answered by roc305 on Nov 15, 2009, 04:03PM
46 answers

lol omg @yall can't cum? c'mon reallY?

ALL EYEZ ON ME Answered by roc305 on Nov 15, 2009, 04:04PM
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lol are you serious ? @can't come?

Snow in june Answered by hockeymuck on Nov 16, 2009, 03:51PM

Maybe he is masturbating this is a normal thing for guys sex or no sex. This would limit the semen out put. Not sure if it would make it so no cum comes out every time but it would be a lot less if he is doing it a lot 2 – 3 times a day. If he is willing have him stop everything for 72 hours and if you still get no cum then I would have him see a doctor. Good Luck

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