Why are guys so cold hearted ?

I've been through a lot with guys why can't I find some one to treat me rite I don't understand how guys can be so cold hearted and so. FAKE I hate it. Can ya gimmee some advice is it me I've been chested on so many time it ain't funny.

they arent all... I hate cheaters and guys like that any girl you say you will go out with should be only with you... and they need to treat the girl right...sad that some guys are like that tho

well if there cheatin on you then there flat out just not good and maybe try to get to know em a lil better befroe you do out with em and talk to their exgirlfriends maybe

I don't think all guys are like that I still think there are still some good guys out there you just have to find the type of guys thats going to treat you right and except and love you for u , yeah we're all going to get hurt by others sometimes but it's about being able to get back up and start over cause everything we doin in life is only to make us stronger and smarter as a person , so it's all about being able to know who and what you really want in life and what kind of person you want in your life

see theres less and less good guys like me... cause most of the time we get screwed over in the end all the girls say they want a sweet guy but still go for the assholes that will hurt them

not all guys are mean and cold-hearted and stuff like that, some of us are very nice and sensitive and stuff like that. this may sound gay but I dont care, but I write poetry for my girl about once a week to express how much I love her, I hold her for hours, tell her how much I love her, and make sure that she knows how gorgeous and how much I value her love on the daily...so im not a meanie :] haha that didnt help, but there are nice guys out there, and my advice is to wait it out instead of searching for a guy. I once got a fortune cookie that said 'the best wealth comes to those who wait' and my friend also got one that said 'it is a good day', so I don't know, but I think my advice was ok :]

Maybe your taste in men is what needs to change...

I try to be as nice as possible and girls dont liek me because of it, they choose the assholes...

The ever so common 'cat-on-a-string' reaction...

thanks

. hope not to sound rude; but maybe its just your taste in men. it is often the case that what we want isn't the best for us. think of the guys you've been involved with to see if they have stuff in common. not all guys are like you say cold hearted. but cheer up, maybe I'm wrong. anyways, I really hope you find on thats good to you.

best of luck

guys aren't as cold as you seem to think, we all have a soft side just gotta find it.
I express mine through writing I have a whole page dedicated to it. you should check it out it's my url. then let me know if you think 'all' guys are cold hearted...