Why am i so ugly?

I'm 13 years. old. I'm fat and I have bad acne. And right now I am so depressed. I just wish I was as beautiful on the outside as I am on the inside. I've never had a boyfriend before. Im still a virgin . All my firneds are are prettier than I am. I...

never get comliments except from my family. What is wrong with me? Why am I not attractive to any guy? I don't smoke or drink. WHY AM I NOT GOOD ENOUGH??

YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL !!! U SHOULD NEVER ASK THAT QUESTION IN YOUR WHOLE LIFE AGAIN U MADE ME CRY BECAUSE U THINK UR UGLY ... ACNE TENDS TO DISAPPEAR WHEN U GET OLDER AND FAT DISAPPEARED FOR MY CUZZIN WHEN SHE GOT TALLER SO IF U DONT THINK UR BEAUTIFUL NOW ( WHICH U R ) ULL BE COMIN DOWN THAT MAIN STREET GETTIN ALL THE BOYS LOOKIN UR WAY LOL .... ;P

Beaty is in the eye of the beholder. And to God you are beautiful. You are fearfully and wonderfully made. He made you special. Stop comparing yourself to everyone else and know you are beautiful to yourself.

I understand what you are going through i went through a similar thing when i was younger hun, because i have a cleft lip and pallete, which is basically where the upper lip didnt close all the way when i was born and so i had stitches.. and well many kids made fun of me and tried to fight me for who knows why... and well right now it may sucks for you but you learn a valuable lesson in life by this, that not everyone is perfect and well eventually things will turn around as you get older, guys will start to notice you trust me hun you are very young... i didn't have my first girlfriend until i was 16... and didn't have sex until i was 18... so just hang in there, and just be confident, just love yourself for who you are inside and don't care what people think of you... i hope that helps

jason

ok, so im sure you are not ugly!! first of all, you need to hold your head high, if you dont like the way you look, then no one else will either. never compare yourself to other people...everyone has their strengths and weaknesses. for your acne, go to your doctor. i have acne too (and im 13) and after i went to my doctor last summer, my acne got sooo much better! so, just remember, hold your head high, there are soo many people that would kill to see you fall.

In no way are you fat and ugly, please remember that. I would be a liar if I claimed that I never feel that way, because ther are days when I don't even want to look in the mirror. On those days I remind myself that I am beautiful, even if I don't hear it as often as some. I am beautiful because our creator made us all special. Beauty is what we make of it. Keep your head up and shoulders back and walk with confidence and you will be amazed at how many take notice. Nothing is more attractive than self confidence. By the way I applaud you for being a virgin, that is a special gift that you should take pride in!

lisen Honey i know what you are going though and yes it is hard but you have to remember a few things

1. everyone is beautiful to someone in this world
so there is someon out there that thinks you are buetiful and loves you for how you are

2. you have to love yourself before someone can love you

3. even though it may not seem like it looks are not everything and you are beautful
no matter what anyone says

4. you are only 13 you should still be a vergin you sould save that for the right guy becasue that is something you will never get back and God tells us to wait

so dont be so hard on yourself God has a plan for you and you may not see that right now but it will all come together in the end

Hope that h

Okay sweety, chill. your only 13. Dont worry about not having a boyfriend or your still a virgin. Hun, when your a teen, you start to get pimples and black heads. Get your someone in your family to buy you some clean and clear from wal mart or go to the doctor and get some medicine perscribed to you. You are very pretty.

LISTEN HONEY FIRST OFF YOUR STILL YOUNG. AND YOU HAVE YOUR WHOLE LIFE TO GET A BF. JUST WAIT UNTIL THE RIGHT ONE COME AROUND, I MEAN TRUST ME HAVING A BF COULD BRING YOU MORE PAIN THEN YOU ALL READY HAVE. AND IT DON'T MATTER IF PEOPLE THINK YOUR UGLY. YOU NEED TO FRIST LOVE YOURSELF!!!!!. AND WHEN YOU COME TO EXECPT HOW YOU LOOK THEN EVERYONE AROUND YOU WILL. AND TO BE HONEST IT'S NOT ALL ABOUT SOMEONES LOOKS, NOW AND DAYS IT'S WHATS ONE THE INSIDE AND NOT THE OUT. REMEBER GOD MADE YOU TO BE ONE PERSON YOU JUST HAVE TO FIND OUT FOR YOURSELF HOW SPECIAL YOU ARE. KEEP YOUR HEAD UP AND NEVER LET PEOPLE SEE YOU WITH YOUR HEAD DOWN. AND YOU WILL BE THROWN AT HOW MANY GUYS COME AFTER YOU. AND YOUR NEVER SUPPOSE TO ASK YOURSELF THAT DUMB QUESTIONS. YOU ARE BEAUITFUL IN EVERY SINGLE WAY ,REMEBER WORDS CAN'T BRING YOU DOWN.

YOUR FREIND,
FATZ07

You are not fat and your not ugly. Your still young. your 13 years old and you definately do not need to rush into having s*x. So please dont!
You've got a long time ahead of you to start seeing boys,dont grow up too quickly. enjoy your time with your friends. I did.

Dont let this get you down
Message me if you wanna chat x

ur not ugly. i sometimes feel like u + pple always tell me im pretty but i dont think im that pretty. ur not alone.

ur not fat and ull get it boyfriend trust me it took me some time i was da same way cuz i was very ugly in 6th grade and nobody wanted to talk to me now i got everybody on me it just take some time if u need help ill help u..ur confdence is so low dat u probley dnt do anything wit urself dats y boys dnt notice u but im god person and a good friend so if u need anything else ask me

ur onli 13 . . .xx

dont think that about your self... maybe your just a late bloomer... I thought about d same thing before I had a b.f... im 13 turning 14 at december... we had a same situation... I felt d same thing too... dats why I become emo... for a week...
I dint felt love and all...
no body that I knew likes me...
my frends have b.f and I dint...
before I called my self ugly but den later on I start 2 call myself beautiful...
den this goth guy said he likes me and I liked him before he liked me...
now we like go out... and all sweet... but I dint said yes to him because I was jelous of my frends that dey had b.fs and I dint because I said yes 2 this guy becoz... well I guess I love him...

and never think negative... alwayz think positive
u just gota w8 because ders always someone out der 4 u w8ng... u'll bloom soon... u just gota w8

Im also 13 and have asked the same question as m friend told me I was ugly
but I suppose we do need to hold our heads high but I do understand its hard not to care what othes say and think and what we think as well
can I say also your arms are lovely and elegant!
Beauty is only skin deep!

you are a complete idiot 'scambl' I noticed that you dont have a picture to show... must be in the family...

1st off -- your not ugly -- your body is actually perfectly fine by your picture and you'v got some really nice features.

If your conscious about your acne, just work on making it dissappear. Acne can be taken care of! Do some research, try some products, go to your doctor, ect.

If your conscious about your weight (which you shouldn't be)... just work out.

From personal expierience -- if your 13, than I expect your in middle school right? Middle school is TOUGH... I was sooo alone in middle school. Now I'm in 9th grade and it's like love life and everything has taken flight. It does for everyone I think. So don't worry at all! And don't get down on yourself.

Everything can get better if you chose to make it so...

I Know How You are feeling, I dont Have Bad Acne But Im Pretty Over Weight for my age imlike 14 and I weigh Somewhere around 158 160?. iknow im Fat, we All have our Flaws, even Those dumb Sluts have Flaws. oo Sorri language haha.XD But Anyways I myself have a beautiful friend whos smart, And Sometimes I get jealous but then I always think to myself, I Am Who I am, And you Know I notice, even The most ugly People have Their Love, And These people below me Are Correct were[[you]] Are still young And Were Still Developing, You Can change By Exercising Often, And your Acne, have You Trie seeing a doctor? get medical help..Honestly I thing proactive Sucks Major it takes to long, try this product call Noxema, But I Think You Should See a Doctor, Hope this helped :]
Love Always
-Keriee

I thought the same thing
I have like kind of the same story
and I had a crush on a girl
like this is kind of going of topic
but she was the prettiest girl in the world... and I thought I was the ugliest guy ever
we became best friends and just yesterday she told me that I am not ugly
and I am actually cuter than half the guys in our school
and shes the prettiest girl ever.
I didnt believe her.. but I can tell she was being serious
you are GORGEOUS at least t one person
and that should matter
forget what other people look like

You are very young yet hun..you have baby fat...your body will change .

(: You're very pretty, don't worry. Try Clean Clear Daily Pore Cleanser, I use that when I take a shower and it kills any breakouts I get before morning. And you are not fat at all! But if you are insistent on losing weight, try just eating a variety of lower calorie foods like fruits and vegetables and jogging after school or even riding your bike after school or hanging out with your friends outside at like a park. Try getting your friends to play a game of manhunt if you are over their house and you've been staring at the T.V. all day (: xo jess good luck !