Why after someone that you love passes away does life go crazy?

my grandma passed away a few months ago and evr since then my life has gone crazy and everything keeps going wrong. how do I fix this? How do I bring the happiness back? Why does this happen?

Of course your going to be upset about it for a while,but you have to realize that shes in a better place now,and you have to move on and not think about it so much.Think about how you had good times with her,dont focus on how shes gone.everybody has to die sometime...it was just her time to go.
Im sorry for your loss.
-Devany[:

because your still hurting from it.. nothing is going to cure it besides time and acceptance. and im sure not everything is going wrong, your just focusing in on the negative things which is completely understandable. to help, try looking at everything in a different way, like, instead of what's been going wrong try to focus in on all the good days and all the little things that are great that get taken advantage of such as friends and family and every day you spend with them.

thanks that helps.. I guess I do just need to focus on the positives...