What's your perspective on this?

ok so my and my ex have kinda been messin around with each other but it doesnt make sense because when we were together it was pointless.We both have moved on but we always see each other,and when we do see each other we either start off arguing and end...

doing some type of sexual thing,or he gets mad and hits me and stuff like that.I don't get our relationship...why do yall think about it? by the way when he hits me its not like he punches tha heck out of me its nothin like that,and he always apoligizes

You act like its ok for him to hit you, because he always apologizes! Its NEVER ok for anyone to hit you. HE IS YOUR EX! You have NO more relationship, so why are you still messing around with him?

Abuse can sometimes be mistaken for intense feelings of caring or concern. It can even seem flattering. Maybe you think he really cares about you, but actually, excessive jealousy and controlling behavior are not signs of affection at all. Love involves respect and trust; it doesn't mean constantly worrying about the possible end of the relationship.

The first step in getting out of an abusive relationship is to realize that you have the right to be treated with respect and not be physically or emotionally harmed by another person.

Dear jazzjazz1208,
Since You guys are broken up you need to move on and Stop seeing him... when you guys do sexual things when you guys arent together is only messing with both of yous emotions which is going to make it wayyy harder to move on.. So what you need to do is stop doing sexual things... If it isnt working out then it isnt working out there is a reason why you guys broke up maybe in the long run you guys can be friends but from the looks of how hes treating you, you guys shouldnt be friends.. you need to move on ... You can find better. good luck

well, if he is hitting you, you shouldn't be messing around with him in the first place.
sounds like he knows that if he is around you then he is going to get something out of it regardless.
I would ditch him all together. Sounds like a douche bag to me.

If he is hitting you, you should deffinatly not being doing anything with him or even seeing him at all. He is using you and he thinks that he can get whatever he wants.
Don't cave in and give it to him, and try to stay away from him. He could seriously harm you.

You need to end this.
'Messing around' with someone isn't good. If you're doing that kind of thing with someone, it should be with someone you are in a relationship with and truly love. Your letting him play you like a fiddle. The best thing you can do is end all contact with him, especially since he abuses you.

Yeah, he always apologizes and then turns around and does it again. You really shouldn't be asking us. We're not the people to talk to you about this. You're Mom and Dad are. Talk to them. This is to serious to ignore. One day he'll end up killing you. Wheather you believe it or not.

ok first stay away from him don't look at him if you see him in school try 2 develope a short cut around him. and if he hits, I wonder if he bites!