Wht do i do to make it nt hurt as much?

Ok my granny passed away thursday mornin @ 15 til 11 :[
and I felt really close to her..well she has been dien for almost
a yr nw and this past month she was in tha hospital and losin her mind
(how some people do before they die) and it hurt so bad...

to watch her go
thro that..well I stayed up there wit her all month up until I cldnt
stand to see her like that anymore..and today I was pose
to go up there and say my final goodbye bt my dad called
and told me she died..welll I know your pose to mourn ova it bt we
were so close and it hurts so bad...does anyone know wht to do
to help ease tha pain?

well loosing someone close to you is never easy
and its perfectly normal to cry and mourn over it for a while
wether it be for a day, or a month, ect
the best thing you can do is not hold your feelings inside
so you could even try talking to your parents,siblings ect and anyone else who was close to her about how you feel over her death
and talk to each other, comfort each other, ect
other things can also help
like if you have things that remind her
you could make a special memory box and put those things in it
even write down quotes she said or advice she have you and put it in there so youll always remember it
well I hope that helped, at least a bit :]

I know how you feel to lose your granny. My granny died 4 years ago and I hardly never gotten to say goodbye before she died OR never got the chance to know her. My mother rarely made me visit her, plus I was thinking she was gonna live for a long time so I didnt care to visit. But you lucky you got the chance to know her well. All you got to do is think that she's watching you and that she's always with you. =]

My dad died a couple of months ago...the last time I said goodbye to him was two weeks earlier...All of a sudden we got a phone call saying that he'd died.

It is very difficult to get over. Spend time with friends - best thing to do.