Who is wrong, who is right?

Okay here is the story: I'm in junior high and I have gotten out of my 'depression mode' and I've changed my appearence (started make-up and criped my hair) My bestfriend hates make-up and she started to critizes me that I am a horrible best friend I don't listen I don't care I'm selfish and I am heartless. I have to agree (sort of) and I know I am a horrible friend, the worst! but she makes me feel like she is doing a one way realationship she started to say I changed after a phone call we had last friday and I was actually depressed and had some problems I need a best friend for but she assumed I was becoming a snobb. Today she and I sluffed 5th period and we talked well I had thought we had stitched the wound of the fight up and she brought it all back up again ripping the fragile stitches out which pissed me off bad so I smart mouthed her which made her mad. Once the bell rang to go to the next class she grabbed my arm in pure anger MEANING to hurt me and she dragged me to 6th hour. I kept telling her very sternly 'Let my arm go' but she would only tighten her grip. People came up coming into the class room and they all were telling her 'Let go of her arm are you some phsyco b***ch?!' One girl came to pry us apart, I had given up and just stared at her straight on waiting for her to let go, glad there were people supporting me, and when the girl reached she hit her and missed and hit me (don't know if she knows that) I winced then stared her on again and she looked me on also then let go. She walked off and unconiously from doing it for 3 years I followed her. The girl who tried to pry her off followed yelling at us wanting to know what is going on and wanted answers threatning to report to the principal. I told her I would tell her later tryingto get her off she left and my friend was still walking and heading for the bathroom (I taught her to sluff she can't sluff so well) I said 2 things I don't remember the first one but the last one (my voice was really breakign and I was about to burst to tears) was 'Remember, you left first' I then ran to my locker grabbed my stuff ran to the office to call home and go home but the lovely sweet secretary noticed something was wrong, I was convinced I could get no more help but they took me to the sick room and she comforted me I told her where my friend was which counsler she would talk to and told them to give back her scarf (I was wearing it because we were in a good mood in the morning) I had the other counsler come up to me (I couldn't look at her at all wouldn't be able to) and we talked and I jsut made it to my bus which means no 5th 6th or 7th hour that day and I am already behind in 7th (english) but I ran straight for my bus and didn't even look at her. I was crying longer than I ever have before but I know I took the wrong actions but some of you guys have been throough the smae situations and can help funmail me or email me (Fun mail me) for questions or answers if you wish

woaah... hold up... so this was ALL about you wearing make-up?

Sounds like you love your friend and you guys are into a big rocky part of your friendship. She sounds like she has some issues with you that she is not telling you. Also I think she has some issues...period...but anyways I would let things die down for a moment and then try to speak to her, WITHOUT blame involved because that will only start another fire.

I think falling out is an esential part of friendship but not when it results in violence ask her whats bugging her a real friend would tell you

zac1: It all started around the time I did start doing my hair different and wearing mascara thats it really...and because I wasn't in a good mood and needed a best friend on the phone...

bethx:I'll ask her...when I see her next or via email and thanks

Bastrsassinjun: first off love the name! also I really apreciate your advice I think its the right thing to do

I think she mite feel kinda jealous.maybe she thinks your growing up too fast and mite leave her to hang out with girls that wear makeuo.I think maybe just kinda tell her to try on some makeuo as friends maybe shell do it,but she seems quite violent,has she ever done this before