Where do girls want guy's hands during making out?

I know all girls are diffirint but I was just wonderin were would you want a boy to place there hands while makein out?
most of the time I just set my hands around her waist but I would like to try somethin different.. any advice at all would be...

apprechiated

oh and doez it bother you when they grab on to your butt? =P

THE BEST WAY TO KNOW WHERE TO PUT YOUR HANDS IS TO WAIT FOR SIGNALS FROM YOUR GIRL. HOW COMFORTABLE SHE IS, IF YOU PICK UP A GOOD VIBE FROM HER. I LOVE IT WHEN MY MAN PUTS HIS HANDS ON MY CHEEK/JAW WHEN HE KISSES ME. IT'S VERY PASSIONATE, SLOW KISS. ONCE HE DOES THAT AND I'M FEELING TURNED ON, THEN HE TRIES OTHER STUFF. please DON'T GO FOR THE CROTCH OR YOU WILL BE SHOT DOWN !!!

back of the head.
neck.
side of her breasts.
just above her butt.

MAKE SURE THIS IS ALL DIRECT CONTACT WITH THE SKIN.

her crotch.

agrreee. with beckathina.
FOR SURE.
NO crotch. youll be slapped.

OH YA! NO CROTCH! make sure you grab her sides...not her ribs but not her hips either. ticklish spots are always fun too!

I like having my mans hands placed on my side somewhere or my neck or back of my head or when he has me against a wall he lifts one of my legs up around me and then the other and has his hands like on my legs holding me up

sup sup...so yeah I have a boyfriend, weve been dating for just over two years, so I guess it realy depends on how long youve been dating, and how well you know her but whatev...so when I make out with my boyfriend he grabs my a*s, and sometimes, my upper back, or the back of my neck or head. Sometimes if where like laying down, hell put his hands just lightly on my chest, but like waht thisgirl09 said, my Boyfriend does this too, when he pushes me up against a wall, he will grab my leg, and pull it up around him.. also if shes like sitting on a table or something higher then you, you can actually lift her up,,,if your strong like my boyfriend, and she can put her legs around you while your making out. So I guess its really all preference...but like everyone is saying,,,dont grab her crotch, unless you guys are planning on going to 3rd...but whatev

well my boyfriend and I have been going out for about 4 months and I love when he caresses my back or puts his hand on my cheek..sometimes he does go for my chest and the last time we made out he started like I don't know rubbing my crotch..I didnt do anything about it cause I was too busy kissing him, but is it really that bad if they grab or rub your crotch?? I'm definitely not ready for the next BIG step at all...please help me out!

well I love when my boyfriend caresses my back or holds my cheek..but him and I have been dating for about 4 months and sometimes he likes to go for the chest...but this past time he I don't know started to rub my crotch...not grab it but I don't know rubbed it whatever...but I didnt do anything cause I was to busy kissing him and stuff...but is it really that bad for them to rub/grab your crotch..next time do I say dont do that I don't know...please help!

Grab her crotch a few times then if she likes it finger her!
Let your hands lose control and forcefully discover her entire body... roughly run your fingers through her hair, cup her breasts and move them around, tickle her lower back...cup her bum cheeks and pull her crotch in closer to your hard bits :D Itss alll goood

sometimes us girls like it the old fashioned way...just stick with the lower back dude...or you can cup her butt..but your best bet is just stick widd the lower baqqq

well I like it when my boyfriend careresses my neck or my cheeks, that is romantic. I alspo liek it when he runs his fingers through my ahir and that, and the last time we made out, he started rubbing my crotch, I didnt sayanything, infact I dont mind it, it feels sexy! I say just take the lead and we will follow u, and gradually pull us girls in closer to your bits, then your getting somewhere! also play around with our breasts, its reasuring and cup our bum cheeks aswell...

Well since kissing is probably the most I do( im not very experienced in other areas) I can suggest a few things:
Depending on the type of mood, if its like really special moment I prefere to have the guys hand on my cheek or just tilting my head up slightly.
Other moods vary with the type of kissing I think. You cant beat it when a guy starts kissing you and he gets tight grip of your bum and pulls you closer to him then after making out, kissing the neck, that is a great turn-on spot for most girls I know, some people like me might even be into a bit of biting on the neck whilst kissing it.

cheek/jaw.
bake head.
side of breasts.

NOT THE CROTCH!!! UN LESS SHE LETS YOU!!!

the thighs

neck. Any other place is uncomfortable. Trust me.

well when my guy and me made out he would either hold my chin durring or he would feel my breasts, he would also rub my thighs that really turned me on best of luck

every girl is different just put it where shes real comftable with I like when my boyfriend put his hands on my face/neck or my waist..=)