Which boyfriend!?

I was dateing my boyfriend for a little over 2 years, and he started ignoreing me and acting wierd with me I kept telling him that if he kept acting like he didnt love me that I was going to have to do something about it. then I met this guy that my...

famiely knows really well an he had to come stay with us here for a while and I got to be really good friends with him.I have known him for a long time but I never really sat down and got to know him like I did when he was stayin here. so I ended up breaking up with my boyfriend because where we wasnt talking hardly at all for so long I kinda just didnt feel the same for him. I started dateing the guy that was staying with me. he made me so happy and did so many things for me and treated me so good and never ignored me. But my ex-boyfriend wouldnt leave me alone..he kept begging for me back and crying an telling me how much he loved me and that he wouldnt ignore me anymore and give me the attention I needed..... and my boyfriend didnt like it so I promised I would never speak to my ex again as long as we were dateing...and its been 2 months and I havent talked to my ex...but my boyfriend had to move away so now its long distance and I can only talk to him on the phone. we started out doing okay just with the phone but now its gotten to where we hardly talk, we cant think of anything to talk about and its driving me crazy because we get into arguments about it and it really causes problems that we arent talking and when we do talk we argue about why we cant think of anything to talk about while we talk.(confuseing huh?) everytime we argue my ex comes to my head, and it makes me want to call him and talk to him because I knew I could talk to him about anything...but I know I shouldnt because that would be wrong to my boyfriend and I wont do him that way. My ex also got a girlfriend but my friend says that he talks about me all the time and she thinks that he would rather be with me an that he still loves me...... But when we me and my boyfriend arent fighting and we are getting along and talking a lot I have so much love for him and my ex means nothing to me. me and my boyfriend have so many good plans ahead of us and I really love him so so much and I really want to stay with him always. But what is making me have these mixed up feelings...I dont know what to to do...can anyone give me some advice on what I can do!? someone please help...

Do what your heart tells you to do.

OOOHH so there is more to this story, now you are thinking becos you and your bf are going thru a rough time at the momment you want to stray and call your ex? you need to be a good person and make some choices. If your not willing to stick it out with your bf then you need to let him go and find someone he deserves. Someone who wont leave him over stupid things like talking on the phone, he deserves better. Then do whatever you want with your ex, just remember why you guys broke up in the first place, and dont play games between these guys, its unfair.

Your having these feelings because your bf isnt around anymore. We always seem to fall back on our last love when things arent going so good! If you want things to work out with your current bf, then you need to work at it! How can you NOT have anything to talk about when you dont see each other everyday? Talk about your day with him. Theres always something to discuss. Leave the past behind you, and stop talking about your ex!! You broke up with him for a reason!

It makes you life hard the fact that your ex was coming back to you begging for you to get back with him and said that he will change but remember yes, every one makes mistakes and some of learn from them and soem only see what they have when they loose it but if he couldnt appreciate and respect you as a girlfriend while you were his then that should prove to you something about his personality and faults in our personalities dont change over night or over 1 bad experience, it takes a very long time, and even sometimes when we think have changed those faults come up again. Its hard maintaining a relationship over the phone when its long distance, but you have to work out for yourself whether he is worth waiting for... if you got along so well with him when he was present, thats one thing to consider but the fact that you two have nothing to talk about that seems a bit odd. The people you love are the ons that you normally say i could spend every second with him and talking to him, and never get bored Personally from experience, my and ex and me have a similar story to yours, but ive realised that if he couldnt treat me right at that time, he never will and if i was to get back with him, id always be scared of the fact that he'd do it again and now im with a wonderful guy who treats me right, just like in your case. Try and take out the positives, and be friends with your ex and even talk over things, coz it helps alot, maybe it would even help iuf you would take a break with your bf and spend time with your friends to see how you feel and come back to everything with a clear mind. Dont make any decisions in the blink of a moment because its usually the ones u regret, when it comes to feelings think hard about it..

well...you were with your ex for 2 years...that would explain the feelings you still have for him. i mean after 2 years, you can't just say you hate him now. your always going to have feelings for him. since you don't get to see your current boyfriend now like at all, its really not worth it to me. i would give your ex another chance. remember...people do change. good luck with this.