When you have sex

when you have sex where is the best place?
should it be like on a hotel or something like that cause I want to know beucase I would like to have sex

There is no speical place that is the best. Anywhere you want. Anywhere that it happens not a lot of people plan out where there first time is going to be. But if you are planning where your first time is going to be make it a safe place where both of your are comfortable & the mood is set. & always make sure you use protection.

Wheres the best place to have sex? Seriously, you need to grow up first and not ask such rediculous questions. Sex is something very sacred, and intimate. Its not something that is PLANNED!! a lot of girls regret having sex at an early age. Save sex for marriage where it belongs. You will only get USED, and ABUSED, only to be left hurting and wondering why!!! If you think by having sex is going to keep a guy, then hopefully you will learn from your mistakes!! Condoms arent 100%, and it doesnt protect you from aids or any STDS!! So make the the right choice, and go for abstinence. It saves people a lot of hurt, regret, and getting a bad reputation!!

Actually, condoms will help prevent the spread of aids, which is by the way, an STD, as well as other STD's, or as they are now referred to, STI's (sexually transmitted infections).

Also, sex is a very personal decision. Contrary to what many may say, premarital sex does not always lead to hurt and devestation. It does if you pick the wrong partner or if you are not ready for that step. Protect yourself. If at all possible, get both of you checked before you go for it. Have fun. (because that's what it's all about.)

Condoms help prevent the spread of STI's but only if they don't break which they often do. Also a lot of teens don't know how to really apply them - they are so nervous and fumble around so much that they put it on backwards and then realize it and put it on the right way again. I heard this in a presentation that was going to a local middle school. The kids were actually shown how to properly apply a condom - the visual aid was a cucumber. Just make sure that you know what you're doing and don't be afraid to back out at the last minute if you're not ready. Make sure you're not doing it out of rebellion. That's what most young girls do and that's why they regret it.