When should we meet irl?

Hi, I'm a 14-year-old Goth girl. I have an amazing emo boyfriend that I met on my favorite website. He's my 1st boyfriend, and we've been together for a month. I live in NY and he lives in Louisiana. I want to meet him in person, but I don't know when I...

should. I know he's who he says he is because we've talked on the phone before. I really love him and feel like I want to be with him for the rest of my life, and I want to lose my virginity to him. So, when should I meet him?

1. You don't love him. You have never met him befor.

2. It doesn't matter if you talk on the phone, he could still be
a perv.

3. You Haven't even seen him and you want to lose you virginity to him?
Your only 14.

sweety you have some growing up to do.

never ???

Okay, he's over the internet, you don't love him. You're 14, dont' try and go running off to go bang some internet kid. Yah, just because you've takled to him on the phone doesn't mean he can't be some old creeper. and Uhm, the saying you're goth and he's emo part just really annoyed me, because like that has ANYTHING to do with the subject.

if you want to meet in real life then go for it but if hes a perv' then thats on your half. you cant really love someone over the internet theres a limit to it really. its something I like to call false love it can be really hard to tell if your in love or not at times. you really have to think about this to your only 14 you still have a while to go.